I confess that I miss @Badran like I'd miss a brother. An especially irritating and annoying brother, to be sure, but still a brother. He was a loyal friend with a great sense of humor, an outstanding mod and admin, a creative spirit who thought for himself, and a tragically pathetic dresser, but one of his most remarkable traits, in my opinion, was his willingness to listen to people. He didn't practice it perfectly, but who does? I think, perhaps a bit more than most of us, he tried to understand people before judging them. I am certain he did that at least somewhat better than me. Like I said, he could be annoying that way.