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Humanianity: The Religion for Humanity??

stvdv

Veteran Member
How is proselytizing/preaching different from advocating or advocating strongly, namely, the expression and recommendation of one's own ethical beliefs? What is wrong with that?

Why "belittles"? Why is it not just an expression of disagreement with other Religions? What is wrong with expressing disagreement with another religion

Is it okay to say that one disagrees with Islam and its Sharia Law?
If you say "Jesus is the ONLY way for all IMHO" then you state this as "a fact" + this implies belittling the others' faith [because it is stated as a fact]
If you say "Jesus is the ONLY way for all IMHO" then you state this as "a personal opinion" + implies respect [by not stating it as a fact]

I hope I clarified it better now. But it took me also quite a while to feel the difference. It is a subtle difference in text (just 1 word) but a big difference in feeling (respect)
If you still don't feel the difference, just ask an atheist if he feels the difference. I asked about 50 people [made it kind of my project a few years ago] to really feel the impact.

Preaching: You share your enthousiasm about your religion, thereby not belittling the religion of others. Using quotes/words like "I love Jesus the most" etc.
Proselytizing: You share your enthousiams about your religion, BUT you belittle the religion of others. Using quotes/words like "Unless you convert to Jesus you go to Hell"

Nothing wrong with expressing disagreement with another religion: It is not about what you say, but about how you say it
I do not agree with your religion (you state it as your opinion)
Your religion is wrong (you state it now as a fact, not as your opinion)

I hope I explained it better now. And you feel the difference.

Just got a thougth to put it different to make you feel it:
1: Humanianity project of you is rubbish
2: Humanianity project of you is not what I believe in

Which of the 2 feels nicer to you? both convey the same message (I don't need it)
But the first ones is a brutal way of saying it, and the second is the respectful way

= = =

About this video:
This woman was talking about the "bad acts done in name of Islam", that is why it was respectful. The top speakers always speak respectful.
This woman was not trashing Islam in anyway. Just stating "the acts are horrible", but not 1 negative word about Islam as a religion

So your question: "Is it okay to say that one disagrees with Islam and its Sharia Law?"
Definitely okay.
1: I disagree with Islam and Sharia Law [nothing wrong with that; just your opinion]
2: Islam is a bad religion and Sharia Law is rubbish [Not respectful way and not true; some like Islam, so stating it as a fact is wrong. You have to state it as your opinion; as in 1:]

Wish you all the best with your Humanianity plans.
 

Bill Van Fleet

Active Member
No Bill - governmental procedures are the process by which we (a) arrive at and (b) enforce (where necessary) the common ethical principles that we have collectively decided we agree to adopt. The Dalai Lama advocates secular ethics in his book Beyond Religion: Ethics for a Whole World - here are a couple of quotes from the introduction:

"Today, however, any religion-based answer to the problem of our neglect of inner values can never be universal, and so will be inadequate. What we need today is an approach to ethics which makes no recourse to religion and can be equally acceptable to those with faith and those without: a secular ethics."

"I believe the time has come to find a way of thinking about spirituality and ethics that is beyond religion."

Is that the goal?

Well that's my point. It hasn't and yet it has been formulated and reformulated in religions for millennia. I don't see how a more detailed rewording in a religious setting will help - and judging by what the Dalai Lama says in the book I just referred to, neither does he.
I understand that most people, even the Dalai Lama, consider Religion to be primarily what the existential beliefs (about what exists and how it works) have been close to the beginnings of the various religions, and that have tended to remain in the religions such that the existential beliefs of most religions are out of sync with what the sciences are offering. As long as you maintain this concept of Religion, and I maintain my different concept of Religion, we will seem to talk past one another.

I have my reasons for believing that my concept of Religion is more accurate than that of most people. I also believe that it is to our detriment that this important cultural activity (Religion) is being turned against. I believe Religion can improve and is improving, and that we should speed up that maturing process.

I am in agreement with the Dalai Lama with regard to the need for ethics that is not authoritarian-ethical but instead rational-ethical in the form of the social contract, but there is not reason to assume that every religion will be opposed to that idea. Think about what constituted "science" a few thousand years ago and what constitutes "science" now. Science has matured. And that has resulted in Religion beginning to mature, also. It is just very early in that process.
In his book he makes it clear that the effective universal implementation of ethical living based on what he calls "inner values" - compassion, empathy, kindness etc. - being the values we prefer others to display in their dealings with us (Golden Rule) - requires more than religious devotion but requires concrete action by leaders - political leaders - governments.
By "religious devotion" I think you are stereotyping all Religion by equating it with what is true currently of the majority of religions, some "devotion" to some authority that has been elevated above us humans. Doing so does not address the changes that are occurring in many of the religions toward acceptance of a more modern worldview. Within the religions, there is a growing move away from authoritarian ethics toward rational ethics, though such change is still early.

Perhaps, I am suggesting, we need a politics of empathy and an economy of human happiness to replace the current politics of competition and economy of material wealth and resources. Such a system would have to be based, I think, on the principles of secular (compassionate) humanism and not on any religious edifice. Such a system is way more than religion - at any scale - can possibly achieve IMO.
I don't agree. But that concept of "religious edifice" is where we disagree. Also, the use of the word "secular," which is supposed to be the opposite of "religious" or "spiritual" (whatever that means), begs the question. Throughout all our history, all over this planet, there have been and are cultural activities that we label "religions" in which the primary purpose is to work together on achieving a basic set of personal ethical beliefs that lead to behavior that is considered good by the culture. It is true that they have not worked well in the past, and there are reasons for that. But those reasons are changing and many religions are becoming "progressive," utilizing existential beliefs that are logically consistent with those acquired through the sciences. What we are talking about is refusing to regard a toddler as "human" because that person is not yet mature. We are not allowing for the early but significant maturation of many religions, because they are not yet mature enough.
And even if we did ever have such a system, perhaps religion would become irrelevant - or at best, an added optional bonus for the religiously inclined - but for the most part the religions as we know them (with one or two possible exceptions) would have to change beyond recognition in order not to fall foul of the necessarily inclusive and positively accepting (beyond mere tolerance) principles of mutual respect for fellow humans such a system would necessarily entail. There could, for example, be no privileged priestly class and certainly no divine revelation, chosen people, saved and unsaved, sheep and goats etc. etc. or any necessity for one human life to be sacrificed for the "sins" of others.
Again, you are characterizing "Religion" as being only like the less advanced ones, and possibly even the worst.
On reflection - it looks like a pipe dream - which is probably why it has escaped us so abjectly thus far. On reflection, I reckon we'll just have to be content with an impossible but crucial balancing act as we attempt to offset the individual survival imperative against the equally pressing but more ecological needs of the growing group of humans we count ourselves part of. On reflection, I don't think we are doing too badly - all things considered - and we are getting better - albeit ever so slowly.
We have always been doing badly, compared to how we may become in the future. We have a chance of getting there, but it is not guaranteed. We will not easily do it if we derogate and try to "stamp out" the very cultural activities that have been for the purpose of working on our ethics.

Our main difference in belief has to do with the nature and potential of Religion, and its importance to us.
 

Bill Van Fleet

Active Member
If you say "Jesus is the ONLY way for all IMHO" then you state this as "a fact" + this implies belittling the others' faith [because it is stated as a fact]
If you say "Jesus is the ONLY way for all IMHO" then you state this as "a personal opinion" + implies respect [by not stating it as a fact]

I hope I clarified it better now. But it took me also quite a while to feel the difference. It is a subtle difference in text (just 1 word) but a big difference in feeling (respect)
If you still don't feel the difference, just ask an atheist if he feels the difference. I asked about 50 people [made it kind of my project a few years ago] to really feel the impact.

Preaching: You share your enthousiasm about your religion, thereby not belittling the religion of others. Using quotes/words like "I love Jesus the most" etc.
Proselytizing: You share your enthousiams about your religion, BUT you belittle the religion of others. Using quotes/words like "Unless you convert to Jesus you go to Hell"
That is the expression of an opinion, not necessarily belittling anyone. It is a warning, just like warning of climate change, etc. It is something, of course, that fewer and fewer people believe (about Hell).
Nothing wrong with expressing disagreement with another religion: It is not about what you say, but about how you say it
I do not agree with your religion (you state it as your opinion)
Your religion is wrong (you state it now as a fact, not as your opinion)
No, you still are expressing an opinion. How could it be otherwise? But I understand that the first uses more "tact," and connotes that you may be more open to revision of your belief. So it does have to do with how we say things, and the rituals we use in doing so.
I hope I explained it better now. And you feel the difference.

Just got a thougth to put it different to make you feel it:
1: Humanianity project of you is rubbish
2: Humanianity project of you is not what I believe in

Which of the 2 feels nicer to you? both convey the same message (I don't need it)
But the first ones is a brutal way of saying it, and the second is the respectful way
Now yes, here I agree with you, because a pejorative term is being used ("rubbish"). That is where I agree with you. That is a hostile act, designed to be used in a struggle for dominance. That is indeed what we should avoid. (Do I need to say IMO?)
= = =

About this video:
This woman was talking about the "bad acts done in name of Islam", that is why it was respectful. The top speakers always speak respectful.
This woman was not trashing Islam in anyway. Just stating "the acts are horrible", but not 1 negative word about Islam as a religion
Yes, and that is an example of the operation of "political correctness." She will get into trouble if she does that. But some are saying that we need to become honest about what is within the religion of Islam, and the danger it represents to the world. Islam needs to change, to grow, to get beyond the harmful stuff within it, no different than Christianity, which has made somewhat more progress along these lines.
So your question: "Is it okay to say that one disagrees with Islam and its Sharia Law?"
Definitely okay.
1: I disagree with Islam and Sharia Law [nothing wrong with that; just your opinion]
2: Islam is a bad religion and Sharia Law is rubbish [Not respectful way and not true; some like Islam, so stating it as a fact is wrong. You have to state it as your opinion; as in 1:]
To just say something is "bad" is not specific enough, and the word "bad" then becomes more a pejorative term, as is especially true regarding "rubbish." Such pejorative language is an example of our tendency to struggle for dominance, which causes all sorts of PSDED. So I agree with you here.
Wish you all the best with your Humanianity plans.
Thank you. I appreciate your wish and your dialogue with me. I hope that you will go back to humanianity.com and see the changes I have made in response to the feedback I have obtained here from you and others.
 

stvdv

Veteran Member
Yes, and that is an example of the operation of "political correctness." She will get into trouble if she does that
Suddenly I saw the difference, which I did not explain before I think:
1: We should never criticize someone's faith/religion/guru/soul/feeling. Because then you hurt someone
2: We should criticize if we see someone acting in a harmful way to others
3: Whenever we criticize we better do it in a way that is respectful and not hurtful
So it is not about political correctness what I was talking (that is true also, but another issue).
Here I only speak about "don't demean the faith/soul/feeling of the other"

Now yes, here I agree with you, because a pejorative term is being used ("rubbish"). That is where I agree with you. That is a hostile act, designed to be used in a struggle for dominance. That is indeed what we should avoid. (Do I need to say IMO?)

I think the below makes everything clear
1: Humanianity project is rubbish
2: Humanianity project is rubbish in my humble opinion
First is wrong: Because it is stated as a fact. [So definitely it is wrong, because you don't think so. When 1 person thinks different you have proved the statement wrong.]
Second is correct: Because it is stated as an opinion in a friendly way. Even the word rubbish is okay for me, because it is stated as an opinion.


Probably you have a problem with the word rubbish in second example. Because your feeling is touched. That is good, Then you also understand all my other examples.
"Jesus is the only way": This does imply that all other ways are wrong. I asked about 10.000 Christians all imply "You go to hell". Rubbish is very friendly compared to hell.
The Christian actually means
"Buddha leads to hell"
This is the same or even more strong than
"Buddha is rubbish"

If you really believe Buddhist, Hindu, Atheist, Humanist all are as good as Jesus
Then you are allowed to say
"Jesus is the only way"
If you see differences between the above
Then you should say
"Jesus is the only way in my opinion"
 

Bill Van Fleet

Active Member
Suddenly I saw the difference, which I did not explain before I think:
1: We should never criticize someone's faith/religion/guru/soul/feeling. Because then you hurt someone
2: We should criticize if we see someone acting in a harmful way to others
3: Whenever we criticize we better do it in a way that is respectful and not hurtful
So it is not about political correctness what I was talking (that is true also, but another issue).
Here I only speak about "don't demean the faith/soul/feeling of the other"



I think the below makes everything clear
1: Humanianity project is rubbish
2: Humanianity project is rubbish in my humble opinion
First is wrong: Because it is stated as a fact. [So definitely it is wrong, because you don't think so. When 1 person thinks different you have proved the statement wrong.]
Second is correct: Because it is stated as an opinion in a friendly way. Even the word rubbish is okay for me, because it is stated as an opinion.


Probably you have a problem with the word rubbish in second example. Because your feeling is touched. That is good, Then you also understand all my other examples.
"Jesus is the only way": This does imply that all other ways are wrong. I asked about 10.000 Christians all imply "You go to hell". Rubbish is very friendly compared to hell.
The Christian actually means
"Buddha leads to hell"
This is the same or even more strong than
"Buddha is rubbish"

If you really believe Buddhist, Hindu, Atheist, Humanist all are as good as Jesus
Then you are allowed to say
"Jesus is the only way"
If you see differences between the above
Then you should say
"Jesus is the only way in my opinion"
I think that what you are basically talking about is the problem that it is so frequent that difference of opinion leads to the appearance of anger, such that special precautions are necessary (consisting of social rituals) to prevent that development. The primary problem is anger and the tendency to struggle for dominance, and then the linguistic rituals and limitations that are for the purpose of avoiding them, sometimes with unintended negative consequences, such as the problem of "political correctness" that makes open discussion of perhaps important issues very difficult.

I think your understanding of where I am coming from will be significantly increased by your reading, from beginning to end (i.e., in the order written) the CHALLENGE page of the HOME section.
 
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stvdv

Veteran Member
I think that what you are basically talking about is the problem that it is so frequent that difference of opinion leads to the appearance of anger, such that special precautions are necessary (consisting of social rituals) to prevent that development. The primary problem is anger and the tendency to struggle for dominance, and then the linguistic rituals and limitations that are for the purpose of avoiding them, sometimes with unintended negative consequences, such as the problem of "political correctness" that makes open discussion of perhaps important issues very difficult.

I think your understanding of where I am coming from will be significantly increased by your reading, from beginning to end (i.e., in the order written) the CHALLENGE page of the HOME section.
No I am not talking about difference of opinion.
If someone says "1+1=6"
Then it is just plain wrong fact as far as I see it
He just should say "1+1=6 that is what I believe"
Because for me "1+1=2"

If someone says "Jesus is the only way for all"
Then it is just plain wrong fact as far as I see it
He just should say "Jesus is the only way for me"
Because for me "Buddha is the only way", which proves that Jesus is not the only way

OR:
are you maybe a Christian who believes
"Jesus is the only way for all"
Then I understand that you don't agree on this

THEN
"We have to agree to disagree on this one"
 

stvdv

Veteran Member
I think that what you are basically talking about is the problem that it is so frequent that difference of opinion leads to the appearance of anger, such that special precautions are necessary (consisting of social rituals) to prevent that development. The primary problem is anger and the tendency to struggle for dominance, and then the linguistic rituals and limitations that are for the purpose of avoiding them, sometimes with unintended negative consequences, such as the problem of "political correctness" that makes open discussion of perhaps important issues very difficult.

I think your understanding of where I am coming from will be significantly increased by your reading, from beginning to end (i.e., in the order written) the CHALLENGE page of the HOME section.
Thank you for this explanation.
Very true, some people have this anger issue and struggle for dominance
Good you explained that, I just met a few who did this to me, and I was wondering "why they do this"

I also found out that people with this kind of "domination" anger are blind for reason. Just want to dominate.
They can not accept "Let's agree to disagree on this one". They must prove that the other is wrong
I just read your words in time [I just met one on RF trying to do that to me]. So thanks for clarifying

Your CHALLENGE site I can't reach now. I think this is only reachable on your pc. it's a local link.
http://localhost/humanianity/humhome.php?
But found it with the other link you gave.
 
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Ponder This

Well-Known Member
I thank you so much for your critique and questions. You are correct that the website was ambiguous about the issues you have raised. I went to work on that problem and have made significant improvements in clarification of those issues. The answers to most of your questions should now be present in what you read on the website. I continue to look for improvements and therefore especially appreciate such feedback.

If you are willing, it would be great if you went back to the HOME section, GENERAL INTRO page, and read, in the order written, primarily just through the "WHAT HUMANIANITY IS AND IS NOT" block, and then let me know what questions remain. Then I will try to answer those questions specifically (and possibly make added improvements in response to any remaining ambiguity).

One question that you asked, however, having to do with terminology, was "What makes Humanianity anything more than a philosophical study group?" In order to answer that, I need to have an idea as to how you are using words. What will help me is if you can tell me whether Bible study (people getting together to work on becoming ethically better people by studying such literature) is anything more than a philosophical study group. (I think it is different, but I can see how a person might not.)

To help clarify, consider the difference between people who study religion and people who practice religion. Anyone can read the books of the various religions, agree or disagree with them, and make commentary. None of that is sufficient to be considered to be a part of the religion studied. It follows that it simply is not sufficient to be 'human activity the primary purpose of which is to help individuals formulate fundamental principles regarding the best way to live their lives, i.e., a basic ethical philosophy (set of beliefs about what the right things to do are, and why, or, stated in a different way, how to be a good person, and why)'; it is not descriptively accurate. Moreover, 'Humanianity is thus not an organized religion or even an organization', 'Humanianity is not something to replace or compete with any group or group activity', and 'you can be a Humanian and still be a member of any specific religious organization, identify with any specific religious tradition, or have no other religious identification at all'.

In fact, it unclear why you would even characterize 'Humanianity' as a religion when it seems to be more accurately described as either a philosophy of rational ethics or as a religious study.

The humanian principle is:
'WE SHOULD DO THAT WHICH WILL PROMOTE NOT ONLY THE SURVIVAL OF OUR SPECIES, BUT ALSO AS MUCH JOY, CONTENTMENT, AND APPRECIATION (JCA) AS POSSIBLE AND AS LITTLE PAIN, SUFFERING, DISABILITY, AND EARLY DEATH (PSDED) AS POSSIBLE, FOR EVERYONE, NOW AND IN THE FUTURE.'​
And, to be honest, this smacks of 'nicism', which is the practice, system, or philosophy of 'being nice' or 'just being nice'. The term 'nicism' is used to satire people who claim to be religious but who are limited to a superficial understanding or application of religious principles.
 

Bill Van Fleet

Active Member
To help clarify, consider the difference between people who study religion and people who practice religion. Anyone can read the books of the various religions, agree or disagree with them, and make commentary.
Exactly! Studying of Religion can be for the purpose of satisfying curiosity or being able to conduct a class in the history of religious ideas, etc. The practice of religion is activity for the purpose of self-improvement with regard to one's own ethical beliefs (basic ethical philosophy), not just the study of what others have arrived at, though that can indeed be, and often is, a part of such activity.
None of that is sufficient to be considered to be a part of the religion studied.
I can't follow what you mean here. Is that saying the same as, or the opposite of, what I have just written? Or something else?
It follows that it simply is not sufficient to be 'human activity the primary purpose of which is to help individuals formulate fundamental principles regarding the best way to live their lives, i.e., a basic ethical philosophy (set of beliefs about what the right things to do are, and why, or, stated in a different way, how to be a good person, and why)'; it is not descriptively accurate.
But why do you say this? Why is the statement not sufficient as a description of what we have always called "religion"?
Moreover, 'Humanianity is thus not an organized religion or even an organization', 'Humanianity is not something to replace or compete with any group or group activity', and 'you can be a Humanian and still be a member of any specific religious organization, identify with any specific religious tradition, or have no other religious identification at all'.
Yes, and if you have read the revised GENERAL INTRO page of the HOME section, just even through the block entitled "WHAT HUMANIANITY IS AND IS NOT," that should, I hope and believe, make that clear. What did you think about the "metaphoric image"? Does that help to clarify? What is it that you believe is missing?
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In fact, it unclear why you would even characterize 'Humanianity' as a religion when it seems to be more accurately described as either a philosophy of rational ethics or as a religious study.[/QUOTE]
It is not "a philosophy." It is currently a movement within all the efforts at developing a personal philosophy of ethics (a movement that emphasizes the importance of rationality) and indeed is a process of studying, often assisted by teaching by those who are regarded as being further along in their knowledge of what ideas have been considered by others (sermons, study of literature, etc.). Again, how thoroughly have you read all of "WHAT HUMANIANITY IS AND IS NOT"?
The humanian principle is:
'WE SHOULD DO THAT WHICH WILL PROMOTE NOT ONLY THE SURVIVAL OF OUR SPECIES, BUT ALSO AS MUCH JOY, CONTENTMENT, AND APPRECIATION (JCA) AS POSSIBLE AND AS LITTLE PAIN, SUFFERING, DISABILITY, AND EARLY DEATH (PSDED) AS POSSIBLE, FOR EVERYONE, NOW AND IN THE FUTURE.'​
And, to be honest, this smacks of 'nicism', which is the practice, system, or philosophy of 'being nice' or 'just being nice'.
This appears to be an attempt to say that it is of little or no value ("just") and nothing to be considered new. Is that what you are attempting to say?

Have you reviewed the SPECIFIC INTRO page of the HOME section, especially where it lists the decision-making that is so problematic for our species? Is stopping doing those things what you mean by being "nice"?
The term 'nicism' is used to satire people who claim to be religious but who are limited to a superficial understanding or application of religious principles.
So I gather that this is your impression of what I am doing. Am I correct? And are you saying that you are wanting to satire my efforts? If so, why is that? Is that the same as, or different than, some people calling another person "Goody-goody-two-shoes"? Under what circumstances does that occur? Is that what is happening in what I am doing? Is it bad for me to advocate for that which I have concluded would be helpful to us all, on the basis of my specific life experience? Should that never be done?

And what are you recommending? That I take down the website? Give up the idea? Stop talking about it? Or something else? Please help me to understand further what you are trying to convey to me (and others). I do realize that I could be delusional or just very naive and grandiose, but I can't come to that conclusion so far. And others have expressed more positive opinions about what I have been doing (though they too could be delusional or naive, etc.). So please help me to understand. Thanks for your interest and feedback.
 

URAVIP2ME

Veteran Member
Do you? Do you have children? Did you teach them it is wrong to steal - or did they just know it from birth? I reckon we learn morals - the basic principles of morality are not hardwired in our neurological set up before birth, the basic ones - like the idea of "owning" things and "staying alive" quickly translate into what might look like inbuilt moral precepts "thou shalt not murder", "thous shalt not steal"...only because they relate so inextricably to the survival instinct and the social imperatives we quickly have to start adapting to almost as soon as we pop out of the womb. If we all retained the morality of a two-year old throughout life, I doubt many of our siblings - let alone other competing humans - would survive and we would have no qualms about having eliminated them. We learn to live in societies with other humans and we have a neurobiological system that supports that and those two in combination is the basis for our moral reasoning.

Moral reasoning comes in combination with: one's built-in compass / conscience / neuro-biological system.
When guided in the wrong direction the conscience can become hardened or calloused without any feeling left.
So, although Not hardwired because the conscience can be directed or guided in the wrong direction.
Or, as Jeremiah observed that man can't direct his step, so someone is needed that can guide or direct the conscience. God steps in with the moral precepts of Not murder, Not steal, etc. plus things like following the Golden Rule, and Jesus 'new' commandment to have the same self-sacrificing love for others as he has on which to train our conscience / compass / neuro-biological system.
 

osgart

Nothing my eye, Something for sure
Oops - no no intentional message - its probably just an indication of absent-mindedness on my part. Or perhaps as I am still thinking of your project as more of a philosophical thing than a religion relating it more to humanism than Christianity - but probably that's just a Freudian slip. I certainly did not intend any negative implications.

I'm sorry to press this - but it is rather fundamental to your presentation - how is "coming to increasing agreement regarding regarding our general ethical principles" different from what we already do in our national constitutions, international treaties, UN Charters etc? And if it is indeed more than that, how is it different from approaching a "moral consensus"? How is the "HUEP" really more than just another (rather detailed and wordy - by comparison) encapsulation of the Golden Rule or the Wiccan Rede?

Would you not think that the sea change you are hoping for in terms of global humanian behaviour really requires something more radical than an acknowledgement the age old religious/philosophical principles of reciprocity and human-centered consequentialist ethics?

I tend to think humanianity wants a religion that people can practice the ethical moral code of it in their everyday lives. Something to put faith in and do.

But at present its looking for only unifying principles, and trying to avoid controversial moral practices.

So its in its infancy, before it settles on a committed way of doing things. Thus its still philosophy.
 

siti

Well-Known Member
Our main difference in belief has to do with the nature and potential of Religion, and its importance to us.
OK - so what IS the nature of religion? I do appreciate its importance and I make that point often in response to people who are dismissive of religion - it has been - and remains a key part of being human. Even today - in a world that prides itself on its secularism - governments still classify their populations according to religious belief (or lack thereof). And I think the scientific effort to understand why we have such an obvious propensity for religion - to adopt a particular belief system and guide our lives on the basis of the precepts that that belief system entails - is a key to establishing what the nature - and utility - of this thing we call "religion" has been/is. But the other aspect of this is that almost all the major religions (at least the ones I am reasonably aware of) seem to have an in-built kind of "self-destruct" process in which the religious aspects...meditation, devotion, ritual, revelation...etc. are ultimately done away with when the real "truth" becomes is established - one becomes "enlightened" or has the "law written on their hearts"...the temples crumble and the inner conviction that denies the ultimate reality of the self/other dichotomy takes over as the guiding principle. At that point, religion becomes irrelevant - how you reached the destination is not what is important any more. So if what you are proposing is a rational and natural approach to "enlightenment" - I am all for it - but what - apart from the destination - does it have in common with "religion" - is it not really an alternative path to enlightenment and not a religion at all?
 

Bill Van Fleet

Active Member
OK - so what IS the nature of religion?
On the website, I have tried very hard to be clear about this, and I am hoping you will read this definition and set of supporting notes, so that we can begin to have a much better conversation in which we can clarify further our different conceptualizations and the reasons for them:
https://humanianity.com/humanianity/humhome.php?_menu=2#d13

I do appreciate its importance and I make that point often in response to people who are dismissive of religion - it has been - and remains a key part of being human. Even today - in a world that prides itself on its secularism - governments still classify their populations according to religious belief (or lack thereof). And I think the scientific effort to understand why we have such an obvious propensity for religion - to adopt a particular belief system and guide our lives on the basis of the precepts that that belief system entails - is a key to establishing what the nature - and utility - of this thing we call "religion" has been/is.
Yes, I agree, except that you probably see secularism as abandonment of Religion, whereas I see Religion as becoming more secular.

But the other aspect of this is that almost all the major religions (at least the ones I am reasonably aware of) seem to have an in-built kind of "self-destruct" process in which the religious aspects...meditation, devotion, ritual, revelation...etc. are ultimately done away with when the real "truth" becomes is established - one becomes "enlightened" or has the "law written on their hearts"...the temples crumble and the inner conviction that denies the ultimate reality of the self/other dichotomy takes over as the guiding principle.
"Meditation, devotion, ritual, revelation" are activities and states that, if looked closely at, are not necessarily confined to the entities that we call "Religion," so I would not call them "religious aspects."

I am unclear what you mean by "the ultimate reality of the self/other dichotomy." Can you explain?
At that point, religion becomes irrelevant - how you reached the destination is not what is important any more. So if what you are proposing is a rational and natural approach to "enlightenment" - I am all for it - but what - apart from the destination - does it have in common with "religion" - is it not really an alternative path to enlightenment and not a religion at all?
No, I would say that it was a rational and natural (referring to the natural sciences) path that religions are increasingly adopting, though they are still pretty early in that process, with that development being present to varying extents in the different religions or religious traditions. And we probably need to clarify what we are meaning by "enlightenment," by which I would mean the acquisition of increasingly accurate existential beliefs (about what exists and how it works).

But I fully acknowledge that most people currently will agree with you. Although I believe that my concept of Religion is more accurate and will be more useful as we move ahead, your concept of Religion is more widespread currently and tends to be supported by current linguistic custom. (Of course our linguistic customs change over time, though.)

Thanks again for your responses.
 

Ponder This

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The practice of religion is activity for the purpose of self-improvement with regard to one's own ethical beliefs (basic ethical philosophy), not just the study of what others have arrived at, though that can indeed be, and often is, a part of such activity.

I'm not clear that you're engaging in a religious practice. I'm not clear that you are doing anything that someone who studies religion but doesn't practice it would be doing.

But why do you say this? Why is the statement not sufficient as a description of what we have always called "religion"?

Because I don't see how Humanianity is more than a rational ethical philosophy. I don't see what about humanianity actually binds people together; instead it seems that people who are bound together by other religions also happen to be humanians. I can't discern a transcendent principle; it's a humanocentric principle. I don't see what makes it comparable to an existing religion; what religion would you compare it to? You don't even appear to congregate for any religious purpose. Did I miss something?

Yes, and if you have read the revised GENERAL INTRO page of the HOME section, just even through the block entitled "WHAT HUMANIANITY IS AND IS NOT," that should, I hope and believe, make that clear. What did you think about the "metaphoric image"? Does that help to clarify? What is it that you believe is missing?

I found the metaphoric image of worms crawling up a mountain to be inscrutable. I have no idea what the 'mountain' is supposed to represent. I don't know why religions are 'worm-like entities' that are 'growing at the top end and atrophying at the bottom end'. Perhaps you should include a diagram to make the analogy more clear? I have no idea if that will help. All I get from the metaphor is that religions are like worms and Humanianity is better than religion.

It is not "a philosophy." It is currently a movement within all the efforts at developing a personal philosophy of ethics (a movement that emphasizes the importance of rationality) and indeed is a process of studying, often assisted by teaching by those who are regarded as being further along in their knowledge of what ideas have been considered by others (sermons, study of literature, etc.). Again, how thoroughly have you read all of "WHAT HUMANIANITY IS AND IS NOT"?

So Humanianity is a movement (not a religion)? Okay. I thought I read it all, but if there's something in particular I should notice or understand, feel free to point it out. Religion often spawns movements. we can even call them religious movements, but we can't always call them religions. I guess Humanianity is aspiring to become a religion eventually... the site says:
'And finally, when and if all of our cultural religious activities have become completely Humanian, then Humanianity can be considered The Religion for Humanity.'​
So it isn't actually there yet? I suppose the question is: will it ever get there? You seem inclined to think so.

This appears to be an attempt to say that it is of little or no value ("just") and nothing to be considered new. Is that what you are attempting to say?

The principle is generic and in keeping with the principle of nicism as far as I can tell. Whether or not nicism has real value is debatable. So I wonder if the HUEP has real value as the core principle of a religion or if it is more along the lines of wishful thinking. The core principle does not appear to be a statement of the trueness of a thing. Instead, it presents itself as a sort of goal that fulfills itself without achieving anything (like nicism). So, it may lack ultimate value.

Have you reviewed the SPECIFIC INTRO page of the HOME section, especially where it lists the decision-making that is so problematic for our species? Is stopping doing those things what you mean by being "nice"?

Hmm. There seems to be a lot of codifying happening on the Specific Intro page.
You also have a list of undesirable behaviors labeled in obviously negative terms.
I was referencing nicism in relation to the 'HUEP'. I'm not sure on the relevance of the Specific Intro page. Do you mean that 'nice' people don't engage in 'undesirable behaviors'? I would say that's an obvious conclusion from the principle of 'being nice'.

So I gather that this is your impression of what I am doing. Am I correct? And are you saying that you are wanting to satire my efforts? If so, why is that? Is that the same as, or different than, some people calling another person "Goody-goody-two-shoes"? Under what circumstances does that occur? Is that what is happening in what I am doing? Is it bad for me to advocate for that which I have concluded would be helpful to us all, on the basis of my specific life experience? Should that never be done?

You may have noble intentions. You may be trying to help people. You may even succeed at helping people. I don't claim to know your intentions or the success you seem to be having. If you believe your experience justifies your actions, then why stop on account of a few criticisms from me?

And what are you recommending? That I take down the website? Give up the idea? Stop talking about it? Or something else? Please help me to understand further what you are trying to convey to me (and others). I do realize that I could be delusional or just very naive and grandiose, but I can't come to that conclusion so far. And others have expressed more positive opinions about what I have been doing (though they too could be delusional or naive, etc.). So please help me to understand. Thanks for your interest and feedback.

I suppose that my recommendation would be to review if you are really justified in claiming to be a religion. Is there some reason that you are attached to the notion of Humanianity being a religion? If so, why?
If you aren't really justified in claiming to be a religion, then you should stop claiming to be one.
The website failed to convince me, so if you decide that you are justified in claiming to be a religion, then you'll have to puzzle out whether to do something about the website or not.

Regards.
 

Bill Van Fleet

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I'm not clear that you're engaging in a religious practice. I'm not clear that you are doing anything that someone who studies religion but doesn't practice it would be doing.

The difference is the work on the self to improve the self, rather than just studying to find out what people do to improve themselves.

Because I don't see how Humanianity is more than a rational ethical philosophy.

It is the personal work on arriving at a rational-ethical philosophy that is consistent with the HUEP in the opinion of the person.

I don't see what about humanianity actually binds people together;

Commitment to living rationally and consistently with the HUEP.

instead it seems that people who are bound together by other religions also happen to be humanians.

Yes, that is correct, to the extent that they are being bound together by commitment to living rationally consistently with the HUEP, rather than by obedience to whomever or whatever seems most powerful in their minds.

I can't discern a transcendent principle; it's a humanocentric principle.

So your assumption is, I gather, that unless their guiding principle is a "transcendent principle" (whatever that is), it can't be called "religion." A religion cannot be "humanocentric," I gather you are saying. Religious humanists would disagree with you, I believe.

I don't see what makes it comparable to an existing religion; what religion would you compare it to?

I don't. It specifically says on the website that "Humanianity is not something to replace or compete with any group or group activity. Humanianity is a personal orientation (a commitment to try to live rationally according to the HUEP) that any member of any group can decide to have, an orientation that may indeed result in that individual attempting to help his or her group(s) improve in certain ways, such as to become more Humanian."

You don't even appear to congregate for any religious purpose. Did I miss something?

Currently, the only active congregating specifically designated as Humanian is Charlotte Humanianity, but it is barely off the ground. Remember, the specific label of Humanianity is still a newborn.

I found the metaphoric image of worms crawling up a mountain to be inscrutable. I have no idea what the 'mountain' is supposed to represent. I don't know why religions are 'worm-like entities' that are 'growing at the top end and atrophying at the bottom end'. Perhaps you should include a diagram to make the analogy more clear? I have no idea if that will help. All I get from the metaphor is that religions are like worms and Humanianity is better than religion.

Well then it is hard for me to understand why you are having this difficulty with accurately understanding. That is not true, I believe, of everyone. Someone disagreeing with you, it would seem, would be a distant friend on facebook (I don't know the person personally), who wrote:
"I'm astounded by the time, creativity, intellect, and insight that's gone into this. I've gone through much of the site several times and each time I find more to think about, ponder, and measure my life against. I love the challenge it presents. The only thing I don't like... And forgive me because it's shallow... is the crawling worms image! I mean I get it, and it works, but ew, I have trouble with it!
Keep up the excellent work. Much to be very proud of here, Bill."
So what do you think makes such a difference in response to the idea?
So Humanianity is a movement (not a religion)? Okay. I thought I read it all, but if there's something in particular I should notice or understand, feel free to point it out.

It is a movement within Religion, or within the various religions to a greater or lesser extent, but very early in its development.

Religion often spawns movements. we can even call them religious movements, but we can't always call them religions. I guess Humanianity is aspiring to become a religion eventually... the site says:
'And finally, when and if all of our cultural religious activities have become completely Humanian, then Humanianity can be considered The Religion for Humanity.'​
So it isn't actually there yet? I suppose the question is: will it ever get there? You seem inclined to think so.

I think it is possible. But indeed it might not happen. We may destroy ourselves next month. We may make the planet inhospitable for us and many other species. But if no one tries and puts forth the effort, then the chances are much closer to zero. I want to be one of those who tried.

The principle is generic and in keeping with the principle of nicism as far as I can tell. Whether or not nicism has real value is debatable. So I wonder if the HUEP has real value as the core principle of a religion or if it is more along the lines of wishful thinking. The core principle does not appear to be a statement of the trueness of a thing. Instead, it presents itself as a sort of goal that fulfills itself without achieving anything (like nicism). So, it may lack ultimate value.

I simply cannot see how you can be saying the above, if you have actually studied the website in any detail. It appears that you have an unchangeable (so far) belief that there has to be no value in the effort.

Hmm. There seems to be a lot of codifying happening on the Specific Intro page.

What do you mean by "codifying"? And it sounds like you are saying that it is not valuable, though I could be mistaken, especially since I don't know what you mean. Have you actually studied what is there?

You also have a list of undesirable behaviors labeled in obviously negative terms.

I don't understand. Should undesirable behaviors be labeled with positive terms? Should I be trying to say that those undesirable behaviors are actually desirable? It is very difficult to understand your reactions to the website.

I was referencing nicism in relation to the 'HUEP'. I'm not sure on the relevance of the Specific Intro page. Do you mean that 'nice' people don't engage in 'undesirable behaviors'? I would say that's an obvious conclusion from the principle of 'being nice'.

It is you that have introduced the term "nice," which almost sounds derogatory, as for instance if it were behavior that was non-genuine. I don't label people as "nice" or "not nice." I think all of us have our imperfections, our difficulty living up to even our own intentions to be kind, constructive, helpful, understanding, etc. I know that is true of myself.

What are you referring to as the "principle of 'being nice'"? The HUEP? What do you mean by "being nice"?

You may have noble intentions. You may be trying to help people. You may even succeed at helping people. I don't claim to know your intentions or the success you seem to be having. If you believe your experience justifies your actions, then why stop on account of a few criticisms from me?

There is no danger of that. But I try to see in your criticisms if I am overlooking anything, making any mistakes, being unclear, etc. So your criticisms are helping me in my thinking.

I suppose that my recommendation would be to review if you are really justified in claiming to be a religion. Is there some reason that you are attached to the notion of Humanianity being a religion? If so, why?
If you aren't really justified in claiming to be a religion, then you should stop claiming to be one.
The website failed to convince me, so if you decide that you are justified in claiming to be a religion, then you'll have to puzzle out whether to do something about the website or not.

See, when you state that I am claiming to be a religion, that makes me think of how you are labeling Humanianity as "nicism." Portraying me as seeing myself as a religion seems to portray me as grandiose, and therefore not worth paying attention to. I get it that you see no value in what I am attempting to propose, but I do not understand why, or how you can be saying the things you are saying if you have really tried studying the website with a mind open to the possibility that it has value.

So far, I think the website, from right at the beginning, is making clear what the word "religion" means as it is being used on the website. I acknowledge that some people are committed to being against Religion, and accepting my use of the term, with its meaning that I believe to be most accurate (i.e., that applies to all the things that we actually call "religion") will feel like an undermining of their belief in the importance of being against Religion. In fact, there are quite a few obstacles for many people to coming to appreciate and accept the idea of Humanianity, that I have listed in the CHALLENGE page of the HOME section.

You write, "Is there some reason that you are attached to the notion of Humanianity being a religion? If so, why?" Yes. It is because I consider Religion to be very important to our species, even though it is still quite primitive in some respects, compared to how it may be in the future. Turning against Religion would be, in my mind, an example of tribalism that is ultimately destructive by virtue of preventing our working together as a species to make for a better life for all of us. Religion should be improved, not destroyed. We as a species should improve, rather than destroy ourselves. That is just my value as a Humanian. The following from the website should make it clearer, I think:
https://humanianity.com/humanianity/humhome.php?_menu=2#H2
 
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Ponder This

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The difference is the work on the self to improve the self, rather than just studying to find out what people do to improve themselves.

It is the personal work on arriving at a rational-ethical philosophy that is consistent with the HUEP in the opinion of the person.

Commitment to living rationally and consistently with the HUEP.

As I already pointed out this is insufficient.

So your assumption is, I gather, that unless their guiding principle is a "transcendent principle" (whatever that is), it can't be called "religion." A religion cannot be "humanocentric," I gather you are saying. Religious humanists would disagree with you, I believe.

I'm not sure if religious humanists have a religion or not. I understand that they've dropped their "religious trappings", whatever that means. I don't know what religious humanists are up to.

Yes, that is correct, to the extent that they are being bound together by commitment to living rationally consistently with the HUEP, rather than by obedience to whomever or whatever seems most powerful in their minds.

The fact that Humanianity relies on other religions to do action of binding of people together directly suggests that Humanianity is not a religion.

Currently, the only active congregating specifically designated as Humanian is Charlotte Humanianity, but it is barely off the ground. Remember, the specific label of Humanianity is still a newborn.

Interesting. Does Humanianity have prayers, meditation, or any other religious practice? What do they do when they congregate?

Well then it is hard for me to understand why you are having this difficulty with accurately understanding. That is not true, I believe, of everyone. Someone disagreeing with you, it would seem, would be a distant friend on facebook (I don't know the person personally), who wrote:
"I'm astounded by the time, creativity, intellect, and insight that's gone into this. I've gone through much of the site several times and each time I find more to think about, ponder, and measure my life against. I love the challenge it presents. The only thing I don't like... And forgive me because it's shallow... is the crawling worms image! I mean I get it, and it works, but ew, I have trouble with it!
Keep up the excellent work. Much to be very proud of here, Bill."
So what do you think makes such a difference in response to the idea?

What is the idea to which we are responding?

I simply cannot see how you can be saying the above, if you have actually studied the website in any detail. It appears that you have an unchangeable (so far) belief that there has to be no value in the effort.

Hmm. I think it is accurate to say that the more effort I've put in, the less worthwhile the effort seems to be.

What do you mean by "codifying"? And it sounds like you are saying that it is not valuable, though I could be mistaken, especially since I don't know what you mean. Have you actually studied what is there?

'codify' means 'to arrange into a systematic code. It's not a derogatory term. I read through. What was I supposed to get out of this? more effort -> less feeling that this is worth while

I don't understand. Should undesirable behaviors be labeled with positive terms? Should I be trying to say that those undesirable behaviors are actually desirable? It is very difficult to understand your reactions to the website.

I don't understand either. You directed me to this page for some reason.

It is you that have introduced the term "nice," which almost sounds derogatory, as for instance if it were behavior that was non-genuine. I don't label people as "nice" or "not nice." I think all of us have our imperfections, our difficulty living up to even our own intentions to be kind, constructive, helpful, understanding, etc. I know that is true of myself.

What are you referring to as the "principle of 'being nice'"? The HUEP? What do you mean by "being nice"?

The principle of being nice is to be nice. Even be nice for the sake of being nice. Just like everyone agrees you should be nice, everyone agrees you shouldn't engage in negative behaviors. It is superficial.
I'm saying the HUEP, as stated, is a weak principle just like nicism is a weak principle and I gave reason. Maybe my understanding is superficial. You directed my to various negative behaviors. What point were you trying to make?

So far, I think the website, from right at the beginning, is making clear what the word "religion" means as it is being used on the website.

Interesting. So you are using the word religion in a sense particular to the website, perhaps in a way that only Humanians understand. Well, I guess it's on Humanians to rationalize that use. I can't rationalize it for them. Peace.
 

osgart

Nothing my eye, Something for sure
I have faith and conviction in the moral code i practice for myself, and i have a higher power i aspire to.

If religion is reliance, id say i am religious.

My higher power is very real to me in only one sense, i created it for myself.

My higher power has no physical existence, and no spiritual existence other than that it effects me, and inspires me powerfully.

Does that make me religious?
 
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