I am... not a creep anymore?!

[Me Myself]

I have no idea how this happened

It´s like I magically am not a creep to girls anymore.

I mean, in general I have never been the top of the social ladder, and I sure ain´t become the top today... but it´s like when I talk and make jokes, women actually laugh now! That only happened with my friends before. And they are the ones starting the conversations! And I am not being a complete idiot mantaining them (apparently at least )

The magic wand of the Genie might have worked entirely of it´s own, but I think it has something to do with me having lost a lot of waist. I was never fat, I was in a good fat porcentage ( 20% or a little less which is avarage or healthy for avarage men) but like last 2 weeks or a bit more I´ve felt like the attention I have been having by girls have been... more favorable? Like the things I say that I normaly would expect people to dont like because they are some kind of fight... now somehow I am doing it in a "flirty" or "playful" or "not unpopular" way somehow? I think the reduce in weight has stroke both in image and (probably most importantly) in confidence? I mean I do feel better since my diet and I feel happy to have been loosing weight (and being closer to my 6 pack goal! ).

I have no idea. Part of me feels actually really happy, but the other one is kind of very paranoiac What if I get used to being treated like a not terrible human being? What then?

It´s like I really like it but kindam akes me feel really scared, but I think in a good way, I mean, I actually have some social esteem to loose? What has the world come too?

 

[Me Myself]

I am not even talking about ugly girls o.o. The one of today was really gorgeous

I mean it´s not like they are in love or have a crush or something but simply... I dont know, the interaction is not terrible or uncomfortable for them. This is completely new to me!!

 

[Old Scratch]

Good!
Discuss payment later we will.

 

[Me Myself]

Good!
Discuss payment later we will.

Your persona is too predictable. I knew you were gonna say that since I read your name on the replies on this

 

[Iti oj]

Hey good for you

 

[BSM1]

You're over thinking a good thing, My. Just go with the flow.

 

[Me Myself]

Yeah, I know I am over thinking. I tend to do that

I mean I am saying this mostly as a "yaaay! this is happening to me!" but also a bit to mitigate some of my nervousness about it because of the simple fact I am commenting it.

I mean, if it came on it´s own, it could leave on it´s own >_> idk.

I am just so far of having had this life experience that I know I am showing comical degrees of pessimism here . But still >_>

 

[BSM1]

You're over thinking a good thing, My. Just go with the flow.

See above.

 

[Kerr]

Yeah, I know I am over thinking. I tend to do that

I mean I am saying this mostly as a "yaaay! this is happening to me!" but also a bit to mitigate some of my nervousness about it because of the simple fact I am commenting it.

I mean, if it came on it´s own, it could leave on it´s own >_> idk.

I am just so far of having had this life experience that I know I am showing comical degrees of pessimism here . But still >_>

An advice. Take that pessimism, smash it into a garbage bin and throw it out. Good things can happen to you .

 

[Amechania]

I think the reduce in weight has stroke both in image and (probably most importantly) in confidence? I mean I do feel better since my diet and I feel happy to have been loosing weight (and being closer to my 6 pack goal! ).

It's not unheard of that a more positive body image can lead to self-confidence, and there is nothing more appealing in a man than self-confidence. I am so glad for you. Keep working on a healthy self-image. Not just for girls, that's only a perk. Do it for yourself and your good health.

 

[Me Myself]

Well, I never had a bad self image (okay, maybe except like... in highschool, but highschool should never count for that ), but I do certainly have a better self image now

 

[Kerr]

Glad to hear it .

 

[savagewind]

It is when you are happy with yourself that the opposite sex becomes attracted to you.

 

[Me Myself]

It is when you are happy with yourself that the opposite sex becomes attracted to you.

If that were true I should have been surrounded by women long ago

It´s probably one factor though.

 

[savagewind]

Hm the wonderful human condition has many levels that EFFECT each of the other levels. It's true, you know.

 

[Renji]

Then that's good. Just remember to chilax.

 

[Renji]

If that were true I should have been surrounded by women long ago

It´s probably one factor though.

You just said that you have better self image now. That's what brings the girls "closer" to you . And honestly, I've partially lost that persona on me. But yeah, the girls are still like "Hi Beej! How are you?" and stuff.

 

[Me Myself]

Specifically on physical attractiveness, yes. But I´ve always liked myself a lot in general

In physical stuff, I´ve never seen myself as ugly, but not as very good looking either. General average feel really.

 

[Renji]

I just believe that we individually possess different kinds of "beauty" (some of us are beautiful physically, mentally;you know those smarty type of folks, emotionally;the way we handle situations and emotions, spiritually; or religiosity/faith, socially/the way we interact with others, etc). Whatever that "beauty" is, if one sees that beauty in us, that's what makes us likeable or attractive (in many ways). Aside from your good self image, I guess those dudettes surrounding you has seen the "natural beauty" that you actually have in you. And I think it's more than the physical. Girls mostly like funny guys.

So yeah, let's just say that we are all "beautiful".

In our case, we should just accept the fact that we are born "handsome".

 

[Quagmire]

It's because you've been hanging out with me.

Sorry man, I should have warned you this would happen.