It's tough. One thing that helped me was to quit quitting for awhile, to get rid of the habit of failure at quitting. So I enjoyed the smokes for a year, then went cold turkey. Before that, I'd quit every second day.I am so addicted to smoking, I was raped a long time ago because of my addiction. If you are not a smoker, please don't start! I am warning you now that smoking tobacco is addictive like heroin. It is interfering with my ability to think clearly, and perform my religious duties, but we won't get too much into that. NO one deserves to be enslaved to a substance that has NO PROVEN medical benefit. if there was tobacco tea that people drank, or people want to chew the gum, that's fine, but smoking tobacco is oh so very addictive. i don't know how to stop!
But everyone is different too. Good luck on it. You're still a great person even if you can't.