I need guidance and help

[Melody]

Well, I don't want to give the impression that I desperately need a woman. No, but it's a natural inclination and I am getting older every day. Yes, I find women my age threatening, cause they would consider me a useless human being, maybe. I consider myself useless at times, maybe it's depression.

Benjamin,
No, you didn't give the impression you were desperate...just lonely. I agree, it is a natural inclination to look for companionship. Been there. Done that. And hey! Don't sell all women down the pike. If a woman considers you useless, she sounds like someone to be avoided anyway!

A great way to meet someone is to take a beginner's class in something that interests you. Then you're all on equal footing as far as experience in that area and it gives you something to chat about. Some singles groups can be fun if they're geared more towards the idea of having a group of people to do something with rather than looking for a future mate. You just have to be a bit more careful since the meat market type tends to attract the wrong crowd.

If you attend church, perhaps they have a bible study group for singles?