Forked from: 14 year old boy rapes 12 year old girl... (please see that thread for the background of the story)
- basically, 14 year old boy takes 12 year old girl at knife point into an alleyway, and rapes her.
The Judge sentenses him to a 'supervision order - electronically tagged- for a period of two years. The public are revolted at the leniency.
- basically, 14 year old boy takes 12 year old girl at knife point into an alleyway, and rapes her.
The Judge sentenses him to a 'supervision order - electronically tagged- for a period of two years. The public are revolted at the leniency.
michel said:Seyorni, you have hit the nail on the head........the eternal juxtaposition of the 'punishment, to appease an angry public' and the 'Moral high ground of how best to deal with what must be a dreadful problem.'
Society needs to see revenge and yet, revenge serves no one any real value.
Does the girl feel better because the guy is punished (whatever the punishment is) ? Will it make her sufferring any the less traumatic ?
Trying to put a "Buddhist hat" on, what has been has been, and is irreversible.
The 'Now' includes the restoring the girl's ability to 'go on', and the trauma (self inflicted) the boy has felt (and I don't just mean the trauma of giving evidence); I am reaching into his (hopefully) guilt, remorse............how will he face those around him again, now that they are aware of what he has done?
And why did he do it?........Is he sick in the mind?.....is there a chemical imbalance, or has he himself been subject to gross indecent abuse, and is perpetuating it ?
Punishing him will have no value whatsoever (to his character); if anything, he will be put into a young offender's institution where he will mix with more bad lads. Given his offence, he might even get beaten up and treated abysmally by the others around him in the institution.
A recap........The past is past; the 'Now' needs dealing with (for both he and his victim).
Idealistic morality would have him homed in a loving and devoted family environment so that whatever was the causation of his need to do the deed can be 'repaired'...............As a Christian, I have to ask myself foremost "What do I believe Jesus would have done to deal with the situation?"