"Time" is a human concept. It is linear in nature, not cyclical. The universe is not defined by time because time only exists when there are humans to define it.
I have been in an underground facility for several weeks. We run our own time system down here based deteriorating performance. Our shifts get shorter and our breaks longer during the length of our posting.
And I'm still none the wiser about your reference to opposites attracting.
While I would agree that our experience of time is subjective, it does not follow that time has no objective existence; even if you are a phenomenalist who believes that all properties of the material world are reducible to sense data, it’s still only our perception of the material world that is in question there, not it’s very existence.
Time and space are defining characteristics of our universe, and all objects within it, certainly at the macro level, require a time co-ordinate in order to locate them. Indeed there is a case, argued very eloquently by Carlo Rovelli in The Order of Time, that we should think of the universe as being populated not by objects, but by events; and events unfold in time, do they not?
So no, I don’t agree that time is a human concept - any animal that has felt his own heartbeat has had an encounter with time, after all. It may be, however, that our probably illusory experience of time is linear, as well as cyclical. Everything in the cosmos is orbiting something, and what are orbits if not cyclical?