Interesting, Sol Mas; seems commonsensical to me. If I can't be who I am somewhere, obviously I'm not going to be satisfied with that social venue and be likely to leave it for somewhere else. I don't believe in hiding who I am. For one, it's a violation of my own code of honor. For two, it sends the message that I have something to hide. I do not. Hiding who you are does nothing to promote tolerance and understanding and much to instill fear and ignorance.