Message to 1robin: Except for my most post #1478 on evolution, I have combined all of my most recent posts into this post, so you do not need to reply to any of my previous posts except for my post #1478.
Agnostic75 said:
Jesus said that divorce is wrong except in cases of adultery. Do you believe that divorce is wrong except in cases of adultery?
1robin said:
That is not the full story. Here is some of the rest of it.
Matthew 19:8 He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not.
You made the same argument in another thread. I replied:
Agnostic75 said:
That is not likely. Jesus supposedly said that divorce is wrong except in cases of adultery, and that Moses tolerated it because the Hebrews' hearts were hard, or something like that. That is not likely since during the time of Moses, God was tough, and ordered the death penalty for things such as practicing the freedom of religion by worshipping other gods, cursing at your parents, and working on the Sabbath Day. It is not likely that a God like that would give in to allowing divorce.
It would have made more sense for the Old Testament to condemn divorce, and for the New Testament to allow it since people were no longer under the law, and could eat whatever they wanted to eat, and worship on whatever day of the week that they wanted to worship, and because common sense indicates that in many cases, divorce is far better than staying married.
God's stern scolding of Job is a much more accurate description of the God of the Old Testament than God allowing divorce is.
Of course, it is well-known that the Bible contains at least some forgeries, and interpolations. Even the Bible admits that tampering with the texts is possible since the last page of the book of Revelation warns against tampering with the texts. If it was not possible to tamper with the texts, there would not have been any need for the warnings.
Today, it would be a simple matter for some skeptics to change parts of the Bible, take the changes to some remote jungle regions, and deceive at least a few people at least some of the time.
You can claim that homosexuality is not practical (although it often is practical), but you cannot adequately claim that divorce is not practical except in cases of adultery.
1robin said:
Abstinence would vastly reduce STD transmission and would produce no corresponding increase in suffering.
If monogamous homosexuals (about half of homosexuals are monogamous) practiced abstinence, that would do very little to reduce STD transmission, let alone vastly reduce it. It is very probably promiscuous homosexuals who are primarily spreading STD's, not monogamous homosexuals. Since promiscuous homosexuals are not even interested in practicing safe sex, they would obviously be far less interested in practicing abstinence for life. If research was done just for monogamous homosexuals, it would probably show that monogamous homosexuals are generally much healthier than you believe they are. Even regarding the general population of homosexuals, the majority of them are not alcoholics, are not drug abusers, are not pedophiles, and do not have HIV/AIDS.
You are wrong about the risks of long term abstinence. Please read about some of the health risks of long term abstinence, and some of the benefits of having sex, in my most recent post in a thread at
Is abstinence for life for all homosexuals a good solution to homosexuality?. Please make a reply to that post. And, please provide in that thread whatever research that you have about how many people have practiced long term abstinence without developing any serious physical, and emotional problems. Quite obviously, having sex is normal, and long term abstinence is abnormal.
You said that "abstinence would vastly reduce STD transmission and would produce no corresponding increase in suffering." However, that is definitely false regarding healthy, monogamous homosexuals. There would be no reduction in STD transmission since there was not any in the first place, and there would be a risk for an increase in suffering, as a lot of medical research has proven.
1robin said:
Abstinence would vastly reduce STD transmission and would produce no corresponding increase in suffering.
That is partly true. If promiscuous homosexuals who practice unsafe sex (many promiscuous homosexuals practice safe sex) practiced abstinence, there would be less STD's, but many of those homosexuals would develop serious physical, and emotional problems as a result. Medical research has proven that.
If monogamous homosexuals (about half of homosexuals are monogamous) practiced abstinence, that would do very little to reduce STD transmission, let alone vastly reduce it. It is very probably promiscuous homosexuals who are primarily spreading STD's, not monogamous homosexuals. Since promiscuous homosexuals are not even interested in practicing safe sex, they would obviously be far less interested in practicing abstinence for life. If research was done just for monogamous homosexuals, it would probably show that monogamous homosexuals are generally much healthier than you believe they are, and that their health compares favorably with the majority of heterosexuals.
One of your major problems is believing what you want to believe, which is arguing from convenience, not from logic, and not from documented research. Regarding your post #304 in a thread at
http://www.religiousforums.com/foru...7-why-cant-we-have-relationship-other-31.html, much of that post is false, and some of it is poorly documented even if it is true. I, and some other people, questioned that post, but you never discussed it with anyone, and did not even remember that you had posted it when I mentioned it to you. You asked me which post it was, I told you which post that is was, and you did not mention that post and more. It is deplorable to bear false witness against your neighbor, and post large blocks of texts without checking them out. Yes, if even half of that post is true, that would be important, but what is just as important is which half, and which particular claims? Would you like to discuss that post in detail, at that thread?
1robin said:
BTW the solution for any behavior is independent from the moral character of that behavior.
If you are referring to the Bible, even if a God inspired the originals, there is no way that anyone can reasonably know how much of the originals he preserved free from errors, including what the Bible says about same-sex behavior. Today, there are only a few existing original fragments of the New Testament from the first and second centuries A.D.
Debates about religion can go on for years. As far as science is concerned, most experts would not recommend abstinence for life for monogamous homosexuals, or for lesbians since they are slightly less promiscuous than heterosexual women are.
1robin said:
Abstinence is recommended for all sexuality where inappropriate by even secular institutions.......
No major medical institution recommends that healthy, monogamous homosexuals should practice abstinence for life. Monogamous homosexuality among healthy homosexuals is definitely not inappropriate. Major medical institutions that deal with STD's deal with promiscuity, and unsafe sex, never with healthy, monogamous couples, whether the couples are homosexual, or heterosexual. You are really a very strange, uninformed person.
Of course, everyone who has kept up with your posts in various threads already knows that medical statistics do not really mean anything to you, and that you would object to homosexuality no matter what statistics say. You are just like authors Stanton Jones, and Paul Yarhouse, both of whom have a Ph.D. in psychology. In their book on homosexuality, they say:
"Finally, we have seen that there has never been any definitive judgment by the fields of psychiatry or psychology that homosexuality is a healthy lifestyle. But what if it were? Such a judgment would have little bearing on the judgments of the Christian church. In the days of Nero it was healthy and adaptive to worship the Roman emperor. By contemporary American standards a life consumed with greed, materialism, sensualism, selfishness, divorce and pride is judged healthy, but God weighs such a life and finds it lacking."
Like you, Jones and Yarhouse only use science as a convenience when they believe that it agrees with their religious beliefs. The difference between you and them is that they honestly come right out and admit their religious bias. In the U.S., 80% of homosexuals do not have HIV. If 99.99% of homosexuals did not have HIV, you would still oppose homosexuality, so percentages do not really matter to you. You never really had any valid secular arguments against homosexuality that apply to all homosexuals.
God withholds additional evidence that would cause more people to love, and accept him if they were aware of it. Such people are not rejecting God. They are only rejecting a lack of evidence since they would accept God if he provided them with additional evidence. Similarly, no one can blame people who lived hundreds of years ago for eating lots of greasy foods since the health risks of doing that were not known back then, and many of those people would not have eaten lots of greasy foods if they had known about the health risks.
How can not being aware of truth that would be accepted if it was known be immoral?