I had to read through the rest of the thread to see a) how
@Satans_Serrated_Edge was responding and b) see if anyone else was responding. I'm not seeing you explain much by way of inherently wrong.
If a person desires to be raped. Yep, I know, odd. Very rare (I think). But I've experienced conversations with (2) people that were expressing this. Googled it, and found it wasn't just those 2 people that had this fantasy. In my discussions, it was me trying to determine if it was strictly role playing or actual. To be honest, I'm not clear and see it as a gray area. From what I understood in the conversation, if the person knew it was a set up (role play), it wouldn't be appealing to them. But also was able to get enough info that had the person convey that if it were brutal and not (for them) sexual it would be very unappealing. I think there are many degrees of what is possibly rape, such that whatever is the most extreme version, I do believe a majority (I'd like to think everyone) would say it is wrong. However, there are two reasons why I can't agree with it being inherently wrong. Possibly 3 reasons, but I'm not going to bring up the third right now. One (that actually relates to the third reason) is it is possible that there are people living amongst us that do desire the most extreme version to be done to them, therefore not inherently wrong, in their opinion. I do see this as hypothetical. Second reason is because there are people willing to commit the act (be the aggressor) and I don't believe that for them it is inherently wrong. I don't see this as hypothetical. Nor do I see it as a situation where everyone else is wrong and they are (inherently) right. For me, it's like any situation where aggression is seen as warranted. I probably have my own version of that (which doesn't harm anyone) but I do recognize it as detriment to myself. Yet, in the moment, I'm likely to justify that my aggression was warranted then.