I wonder, if we(people in general) could focus on all the little good things rather than all the little bad ones, how society might change...
My understanding is that is how we can help the process along especially when we are the actors not just the observers. And it's 99% of the time small gestures - a kind word, listening to someone's problems, a smile can cause another person to also express a kind word and so forth.
I recently read praise for atheists in a quote from Martin Buber's "Tales of Hasidim". It illustrates how we ourselves can be the good deeds:
There is an old tale where the rabbi was asked by one of his students “Why did God create atheists?”
After a long pause, the rabbi finally responded with a soft but sincere voice. “God created atheists” he said, “to teach us the most important lesson of them all – the lesson of true compassion. You see, when an atheist performs an act of charity, visits someone who is sick, helps someone in need, and cares for the world, he is not doing so because of some religious teaching. He does not believe that God commanded him to perform this act. In fact, he does not believe in God at all, so his actions are based on his sense of morality. Look at the kindness he bestows on others simply because he feels it to be right.
When someone reaches out to you for help. You should never say ‘I’ll pray that God will help you.’ Instead, for that moment, you should become an atheist – imagine there is no God who could help, and say ‘I will help you’.”
I read recently that we 'love' those who bring out the divine love in us. Would you say that has any merit?
Yes. We are attracted to Jesus, Krishna and other figures because for us they represent love even if we don't consciously know that. If we have a tzaddik, guru, murshid it's ideally because they hold up a mirror so we can more clearly walk the path of love.
So, it can't get any worse?
I think of it as winter and spring. Before winter is finally over there are hints of spring with buds starting to form, more daylight, hints of warmth in the air. This does not mean that winter is done with us - there can still be serious storms. But the grip of winter is gradually disappearing. So, yes, it can get temporarily worse but with all the ups and downs the trend is positive.
As slow as this process is, we probably won't get to see much of it in this current incarnation. Do you find comfort that you'll get to experience it somewhere else, as someone else?
Honestly it makes me a bit grumpy. I'm no saint so I have a ego that wants to see it through with my current mind.