I'm certainly not free to commit homicide.
Yes. The consequences would be pretty awful, but I can't get past forcing someone to work for/allow into their property (potentially into their home depending on how they run their business) people they don't want to. It's also not a high priority, other things are in greater need of attention than people being forced not to run their business according to racist/sexist principles.
Who is it that is upset the legal system of Iowa will not be using government force to make people behave in a way they are opposed to in principle? Tolerance is not acceptance, and you do not need to be accepted to be free.
I'm not sure what exactly you want examples of. Freedom only existing when it is for something you don't like? When I say something you like, I don't need freedom because you aren't going to stop it. My freedom only exists when I am allowed to say things you don't like, that might make you very upset.
The other side of that paragraph is the obvious fact that we're not going to be fighting for things that we don't need to fight for. Why don't we fight for the right to turn the other cheek? Because no one has made it illegal, or to help the poor. The ability to operate within a workspace under the tenets of your faith was/is in jeopardy, thus it is fought for.