Rainbow Mage
Lib Democrat/Agnostic/Epicurean-ish/Buddhist-ish
I had to make a sex thread too, just to see everyone's opinions. Does the idea of Anonymus Sex appeal, or is it better then other types of sex? I have to admit, it can be hot.
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Have never had it, and to be honest, I am not interested. To each their own I guess .I had to make a sex thread too, just to see everyone's opinions. Does the idea of Anonymus Sex appeal, or is it better then other types of sex? I have to admit, it can be hot.
I think it depends on your mindset.No. Sex is more enjoyable and fulfilling when it's meaningful and with a partner you know, trust, respect and have an emotional bond with. Casual, anonymous sex just cheapens the act and oneself.
I don't have a problem with that. I've been there, myself. The important thing is knowing, trusting and respecting each other, in my opinion.I define casual sex as sex between two people who know each other, like each other as people, and find each other attractive, but don't feel any romantic interest in each other. They just want to have fun and get their rocks off. It fulfills the human need to let go and have fun, on top of bonding with someone else. It's not necessarily a romantic bond (though they sometimes develop in a "friends with benefits" relationship), but it does form a bond nonetheless. And again, depending on the belief system, it could also be spiritually fulfilling for some.
If that's what some people are into thing then more power to them. As I've said before I have no problem with what people do as long as everyone involved are consenting adults. But in my personal opinion there's a lot of issues regarding risk, trust and respect (for each other and themselves), and it just feels like it cheapens sex and the participants themselves. For me it's important that I respect my body and that my partner respects my body, likewise for themselves, and I have to trust the person I'm sharing my body with, and I can't trust someone who doesn't respect me, etc. It's just me, but I want to know the person I'm sharing a personal, intimate experience with.Anonymous sex, (meet up at a club/bar/personals website, get a room, do the deed, and leave, never planning on seeing the person ever again) is, of course, the least personal of the three. It fulfills that urge to let go and have fun, without having to form and maintain another interpersonal relationship if one is not willing to.
Well, I'd also say that there is that sense of excitement when you're having sex with a stranger, because it's so new. Because it's so "bad." I'd think that the rush would make it even better.In my experience, you have to have repeated sex with someone, in order to get to the point of the sex being good. There's always a separation, distance, and awkwardness to having sex with someone for the first time, which prevents it from being very good.
I realize people are different, but I've always assumed that people who claim to have good sex with people they don't know, are generally people who are emotionally disconnected and are relegated to enjoying sex as a purely physical act. In other words, they think the sex they have is good, because they don't know, nor desire, anything more than masturbation with another body.