I sometimes doubt if AI will ever be "alive." Sometimes, it's intriguing, considering fictional characters like "Number Five" in Short Circuit and "Commander Data" in Star Trek. They seemed okay enough, so if that's what sentient AI ends up looking like, then maybe it won't be so bad.
But I don't think AI in its current state is near that level of capability.
However, in defense of ChatGPT, I don't really understand your question either.
They won't be alive.
But I do think we will reach a point where humans will treat them as if they are, but it will be a weird mixture because I think we will treat them more like servants or tools than something sentient, depending on what mood we are in ourselves. I also think that we will speak with them in a nice tone, simply because they appear more humanlike than for instance a robot vacuum cleaner.
But they will be something we can take advantage of and even though some people might think this has the wrong vibes, I think that is exactly what we are going to do, they are going to do all the things we won't bother with.
If you right now, could get a robot to paint your house, clean up by itself, carry heavy things or buy groceries for you if you didn't bother, I doubt a lot would say no to that. We value our washing machines and dishwashers for the same reason. But this would just be a generic servant.