Hema said:
That is totally out of context from what we're debating.
No, it's not. The question is whether or not a person is responsible for thier
own behavior, or responsible for someone elses. It is my own fault if I fail a test, since I should have had the foresight to study. Likewise, if I'm sitting on the beach in a bikini minding my own business, it's not my fault if a man who happens to walk by cheats on his wife that night. If a diabetic is not supposed to have candy, and walks into a Dylan's Candy Bar and buys $50 worth of chocolate covered gummy bears, is it the store manager's fault if the diabetic makes herself sick?
There's no difference between any of those scenarios and what we're talking about here. You are trying to tell me that a stripper is responsible for the behavior of her clients outside of the strip club. Not every man who visits a strip club is dirty, immoral, or cheating on his wife. Besides, there are plenty of places to see half-naked women. Like, television. Does that mean that watching a show like say The L Word is immoral? Are the producer's and the actors responsible if some guy watching gets inspired to go have a one night stand?
We are all responsible for our
own behavior. I am not responsible for yours, and you are not responsible for mine. There is no shortage of temptation to "sin" out there, and an equal amount of ways to avoid them. If you can't help but give into temptation, you have no one to blame but yourself. How is it ever morally acceptable to place the blame for your own problems or shortcomings on someone, or something else?