The question is quite simple. Is homosexuality simply decided by genetics, or is their a choice involved to some extent? Basically, we are talking about nature vs. nurture here. Or, is one born homosexual or is it decided later on in life. This can go with heterosexuality to. I'm interested in the responses.
Sexual orientation is, from my understanding, determined (fully formed whatever) by the age of 4 or 5. I am not sure how one would come to the conclusion that a "choice" was involved.
Regardless of genetics or not (there are some very interesting studies indicating that brain structures and the like are similar in gay men/hetero women and hetero men/gay women) one's environment growing up likely plays a part in one's sexual orientation. Whether purely genetic/womb environment/pre natal hormonal exposure/family environment is the causation (individually or in some combination) of one's sexual orientation doesn't matter, because ultimately any one (or all) of these causes results in one fact - your sexual orientation was NOT chosen by you in any appreciable manner.
Let us assume, for the sake of argument, that genetics and/or prenatal environment play no part in your sexual orientation. So now we are down to essentially one of two causes: your environment growing up (purely nurture, yes?) or a choice on your part. If sexual orientation is not chosen
actively -- in other words you didn't wake up one day and say "I am going to be attracted to women" {don't know about anyone else, but I definitely did not make a choice like this}; then sexual orientation is due to environment growing up which is under whose control? the child's? So, how much "choice" did you have regarding the environment you grew up in? I for one certainly
wish that I had had some choice there, perhaps then I wouldn't have been raised by an emotionally abusive drunk.
Really, the "choice" of sexual orientation argument is only used by people looking for justification for their bigotry against LGBT people. When confronted with the demand that they identify the
decade in which they made the choice to be attracted to the opposite sex they cannot do so, and resort to "god hates ****" level of arguments.