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Is pro-gay Christianity really a tenable position?

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Personally, I wouldn't argue that mainstream or liberal Christians aren't actually Christian. However, I do think it's perfectly reasonable to ask questions (to fundamentalists and liberals alike) like "what are your criteria for what parts of the Bible you accept and what you reject?"

The Biblical inerrantists' response of "we accept all of it!" runs into problems when we ask whether it's justified, but more often than not, when it comes to liberal Christians, we can't even get to the point of asking whether their criteria are justified, because those criteria are either non-existent or so incoherent that they can't be evaluated.

Which one's better? I can't say. Is it better to take one solid step before dropping off a logical cliff, or to drop off the cliff on your first step? Either way, you still end up falling off a cliff.
The issue of "acceptance/rejection" is a smokescreen. It's not really about either accepting or rejecting anything. It's about a critical and honest exegesis of what's there, and weighing the relevance of the message, based upon 1) one's exegetical discoveries, and 2) the litmus test of love and relationship-building.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I realized that this thread is just one instance of a larger question: is compassionate Christianity a tenable position?

While I recognize that Christianity has a fair bit of baggage on the issue of sexuality, I'm surprised to see so many Christians answer "no - it isn't a tenable position."
You're absolutely correct. But where we run into trouble is when definitions of what constitutes compassion and compassionate acts differ widely. Many fundamentalists would say that rejecting homosexuality is compassionate, because they're exhibiting "tough love" by saying "no" to sin. That's why, in my previous post, I stressed the importance of honest and critical exegesis. Many fundamentalists don't do that. They simply take the sentences at face value without digging into the issues of translational problems and cultural projection. We need to know what was said, and why it was said. Then we need to use reason and apply a test of how does our conclusion stack up with principles of love and relationship-building.
 

Vishvavajra

Active Member
Personally, I wouldn't argue that mainstream or liberal Christians aren't actually Christian. However, I do think it's perfectly reasonable to ask questions (to fundamentalists and liberals alike) like "what are your criteria for what parts of the Bible you accept and what you reject?"

The Biblical inerrantists' response of "we accept all of it!" runs into problems when we ask whether it's justified, but more often than not, when it comes to liberal Christians, we can't even get to the point of asking whether their criteria are justified, because those criteria are either non-existent or so incoherent that they can't be evaluated.

Which one's better? I can't say. Is it better to take one solid step before dropping off a logical cliff, or to drop off the cliff on your first step? Either way, you still end up falling off a cliff.
Like Sojourer, I'd argue that it isn't about accepting or rejecting. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that framing of the issue has a fundamentalist bias, since it assumes that there is something coherent to accept or reject. In fact the Bible's contents as well as its significance are things that are subject to negotiation. Figuring out what it has to say is difficult enough, and then we have to figure out what that means to us today.

The idea that the Bible is an instruction book for life is something you get in Evangelical fundamentalist circles, but it's a pretty absurd view from top to bottom. If we're going to boil it down to accepting and rejecting, even the Bible doesn't accept all of the Bible. After all, its contents were composed over the course of 1000 years, and attitudes on pretty much every important thing changed quite a bit during that time. The irony is that those people who accuse others of picking and choosing are themselves inevitably guilty of picking and choosing, since the Bible is utterly incoherent if taken uncritically as an instruction manual directly from God.

Those same nuanced readings that drive fundamentalists up the wall are actually the more sophisticated approach, and the one that actually has a future in the modern world. On top of that, it's an approach that's more in line with how people used these materials in antiquity. Simple-minded literalism is mostly a medieval development. And yes, it asks a lot of the individual practitioner, but that's kind of the point. As for how to tell if the interpretation is correct, we have a rubric: does it help one to express infinite, unconditional Love, or does it not? In that sense it really isn't complicated. Ancient myths and law codes are well and good (not being sarcastic here, I'm a classicist and appreciate such things for what they are), but none of them trump Love. There is no higher law.
 

Vishvavajra

Active Member
You're absolutely correct. But where we run into trouble is when definitions of what constitutes compassion and compassionate acts differ widely. Many fundamentalists would say that rejecting homosexuality is compassionate, because they're exhibiting "tough love" by saying "no" to sin.
OK, maybe it is complicated for some people. I suppose some people can justify anything by claiming to do it in the name of "love." These same folks love to beat their children and claim it's a loving act (there's a thread on that somewhere). This happens because they don't know what love really is. They think the ends justify the means, but love is all about the means, all about the present moment. Being horrible to somebody because you think it will help them down the road doesn't mean you aren't being horrible to them. The point is that they're causing pain where there needn't be any, based entirely on superstitious beliefs and unexamined prejudices and phobias. Love is about accepting people and breaking down divisions, not about reinforcing them. Love is the fundamental understanding that other people (including gay people) are not really separate from you. What you do to them, you do to yourself. There is no difference.

Or, to put it in terms the fundies actually care about (since they love the abstract idea of Jesus more than actual people, contrary to his teachings): What you do to gay people, you do to Jesus. And I don't think Jesus would have appreciated being oppressed, even if it were ostensibly for his own good.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Incidentally, this appears to be a significant difference between Christianity on the one hand and Judaism and Islam on the other hand. They may only allow limited forms of human sexual expression, but they don't appear to condemn virtually all forms.
It's because Christianity makes more of a divide between the physical and the spiritual than modern Judaism and Islam. Modern Judaism and Islam are very concerned with worldly and tribal affairs, while Christianity is focused on the soul. It's similar to Gnosticism and the Dharmic religions in that respect.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
It's because Christianity makes more of a divide between the physical and the spiritual than modern Judaism and Islam. Modern Judaism and Islam are very concerned with worldly and tribal affairs, while Christianity is focused on the soul. It's similar to Gnosticism and the Dharmic religions in that respect.
No, I think that's a red herring. Jesus stressed feeding, clothing, visiting, giving drink, healing physical illness, and alleviating suffering. He used agrarian metaphors. I think it's false to say that there's some kind of divide inherent to Xy. For Paul, resurrection was a physical standing up -- not just some amorphous, spiritual something.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
Sodomy is the original way to summon demons, that is why it is a sin, just like boiling a kid in its mother's milk is a sin and cross-dressing (according to the Torah) but if you can be gay without indulging in satanic marriage nor cross-dressing there is no sin upon you.

Marriage is sex, Gay Male Sex is Sodomy hence it is impossible for any cleric in any Torah-based religion to bless a marriage between two men. However, there are cases of two men who love each other closely like brothers (able to sleep in the same bed without indulging in any sexual activity being blessed as brothers forever just like a modern day civil union between two straight males. It is called adelphopoiesis in the eastern traditions.

Non-incestuous female homosexual activity is not forbidden (incestuous female homosexuality is prohibited) and there are several cases of girl-friend relationships between women in the Bible, for example Hagar and Sarah, Leah and Zilpah, Rachel and Bilah, the 500 concubines in Solomon's Harem etc.. However, the command for men and women to go forth together (and if possible multiply) indicates that although sexual activity between women is not prohibited, the absolute lesbian rejection of male partner is prohibited unless one adopts a consecrated life of celibacy. Otherwise we can see marriage should be one man and up to a maximum of few women, while there is no limit on how many female sexual partners those women may have at the same time (e.g. 500 in Solomon's Harem), though obviously those women must not be already married to any man. It is possible to be the lifelong girlfriend of a woman who is married without ever having sexual relations with your girlfriend's husband, but a strictly monogamous female female lifelong sexual relationship is apparently impossible from the Biblical perspective.

In the end though, as long as you feel sorry about your inability to meet the targets set in the Bible, you have salvation in Christ. But if you do not feel sorry about your sins (as defined by the Torah) then you have no chance at salvation.
How is it that men ALWAYS come up with reasons that a threesome is just dandy? As long as it's one man and two women. Hypocritical much?
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
No, I think that's a red herring. Jesus stressed feeding, clothing, visiting, giving drink, healing physical illness, and alleviating suffering. He used agrarian metaphors. I think it's false to say that there's some kind of divide inherent to Xy. For Paul, resurrection was a physical standing up -- not just some amorphous, spiritual something.
Jesus was an ascetic itinerant preacher and encouraged His followers to turn away from material things. The way the early Christians lived as described in Acts is a good depiction of what He expected. They basically lived in communes and shared everything, much like monastic communities do, except they had married people with them.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Jesus was an ascetic itinerant preacher and encouraged His followers to turn away from material things.
Was he? Or is that the way the much later gospels paint him?
The way the early Christians lived as described in Acts is a good depiction of what He expected. They basically lived in communes and shared everything, much like monastic communities do, except they had married people with them.
Living in communes doesn't necessarily imply some divide between the physical and the spiritual. In fact, it only shows that Xy is, by the way you describe it, much more like Islam and judaism in it's desire and concern for community.
 

Muffled

Jesus in me
I, on the other hand, have yet to see a cogent argument that it's not OK. "I think I read it in a book somewhere" doesn't hold water as a moral rubric. In fact that's one one of the main points of Jesus's sermons.


True. The real rubric is whether the tradition expresses love, which is the true foundation of morality and, according to Jesus, the whole of the law. If it's not an expression of love, throw it out and replace it with something that is. Modern attitudes can often be just as unloving as ancient ones, but the trend towards greater civil rights for minorities, homosexuals included, is definitely a step in the direction of love.

I believe al that means is that you do not wish to find the arguments cogent.
 

Vishvavajra

Active Member
I believe al that means is that you do not wish to find the arguments cogent.
You can believe what you want, but this kind of ad hominem isn't an argument either, and it's pretty typical in this context, so perhaps that should be indicative of something. No, I don't find the arguments cogent because they fail at both the logical and ethical levels. People who hold that position seem to be incapable of forming an argument that is persuasive to people who don't already agree with them (or who aren't impressed by logical fallacies such as appeals to tradition and question-begging), and when they fail, we get lovely gems like this, which shifts the burden onto the audience.

In short, no, it's not my job to be persuaded by you, and my failure to be persuaded isn't a sign that I'm derelict in my duties.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
Jesus was an ascetic itinerant preacher and encouraged His followers to turn away from material things. The way the early Christians lived as described in Acts is a good depiction of what He expected. They basically lived in communes and shared everything, much like monastic communities do, except they had married people with them.
Historically that is fairly accurate, if one accepts the man was in fact, Jesus. After his death, however, things changed a great deal save for Essenes and Gnostics. I cannot agree that what Jesus taught was reiterated in acts, as that was allegedly written by Paul who never met the man. And further, a good deal of his 'rules' we're not in keeping, IMO, with what Christ taught.
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
I believe al that means is that you do not wish to find the arguments cogent.
If anyone can write a cogent argument, it is the poster who you quoted. His arguments are well presented and thought out. You may disagree of course, but that doesn't diminish the point of his post.
 

integralgrid

New Member
Trying to unearth which was the ancient perspective on homosexuality starts from a false premise, I believe. While the existence of homosexual acts is documented by the very specific verses of the Old Testament, homosexuality per se is only a recent construction. Sex between men was probably a constant but infrequent occurrence during the biblical times, and it was only the gradual intolerance towards it, culminating with its formal prohibition that has led to the development of homosexuality as a lifestyle. It is to be noted that even with the ancient Greeks, homosexual sex was condoned, but homosexual love was considered a form of weakness and depravation. Homosexual activity as a rite of passage towards manhood was a fairly normal occurrence; however, when this practice started to be seen as socially inadequate, and even reprimanded, it went from being a normal activity to something that men were forced to hide as a secret treasure. What once was only a power game between men, and a way of releasing masculine energy slowly became an issue of love and commitment, and a form of seeking a forbidden pleasure.

All the natural impulses to which civilization imposed a dam could not simply disappear but have found a different course of accomplishment and a whole new specter of justification. Therefore, it is futile to search for biblical or historical arguments supporting tolerance towards homosexuality, when homosexuality itself is a result of intolerance. If Jesus was Himself accepting or not towards homosexual activity is, again, a misleading pursuit, because Jesus neither recommended nor denied any specific course of action, which is obvious in the way he looked upon the old laws as something outdated in their letter and in dare need to be fulfilled in spirit. Trying to make Jesus say or not say something explicit was the very thing Jesus seems to have avoided. If anything is true about Jesus' mission, He tried to get the means of existence unstuck from the very ends humans ascribed to them. The only acceptable end of every means is, in Jesus' eyes, only God (which is to say, an open end, or the means itself). Therefore, there is no human endeavor that can be stopped solely on human grounds; moreover, God's intentions can never be taken at face value. If there will ever come a time when homosexuality will be accepted by the Christian faith, this will not come by reinterpreting the scriptures but by understanding their spirit beyond any recourse to literal interpretation.
 
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Lj Mark

Member
The above post is really nicely writen, I got exactly what you were saying I believe.. And agree with most of it..
I view this debate mostly on the physical aspects of it, and experiences I've had shared with me by others.
As I find myself in the transgender community, I tend to see very real parallels in the gay community.
This being the countless life histories of both Gay and Trans people, who know they were born different from others
within their same sex or gender, and know they were made this way, that it is not a choice, certainly my own soul searching has found this to be the case as well.
I do not believe for a second that God creates a person with these feelings of identity, only to have that persons very identity made a sin.?
I think we are so loved by God that we can not comprehend it, and we judge and point fingers at others far too much, and too often, showing
an absence of love and compassion to those we point fingers at as sinners.
Just my opinion..
 
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