Btw this isn't the only instance where you and Windwalker have been playing hide-the-ball on this thread .... you guys repeatedly invoke physics throughout the thread (e.g.
this post,
this post,
this post,
this post).
"You guys". I so love being called a "you guys". It's so, "respectful". Anyway, I am not playing hide the anything. It's right there in plain view and you just don't see it.
I've mentioned many times here that what you are dealing with is paradoxical, and you don't want it, or expect it, to be. What you see as "hiding the ball" is simply looking at the self-contradictory aspects of the paradox. OM, just said my position well in the post before mine here. I'm going to re-post what I quoted earlier which goes to this. I recommend reading that over, and let's keep your thoughts at this moment focused on this before I am willing to go further in trying to "explain" this.
I tire of going over the same points again and again, knowing that that is not what will "show" you what you need to see to "get it". The only way you will "see" it, is to step over, so to speak. Then it's like "Oh, that's obvious". Until then, well, there's only so far the mind can penetrate with logic and reason. Once penetrated, then it is entirely reasonable, like love is in that way.
To repost for you and others:
On the one hand, then, spirit is the highest of all possible domains; it is the Summit of all realms, the Being beyond all beings. It is the domain that is a subset of no other domain and thus preserves its radically transcendental nature. On the other hand, since spirit is all-pervading and all-inclusive, since it is the set of all possible sets, the Condition of all conditions and the Nature of all natures, it is not properly thought of as a realm set apart from other realms, but as the Ground of Being of all realms, the pure That of which all manifestation is but a play or modification. And thus spirit preserves (paradoxically) its radically immanent nature.
Now I labor on this apparently trivial point for what is really a very important reason. Because spirit can legitimately be referred to as both perfectly transcendent and perfectly immanent [that paradox], then if we aren't extremely careful which meaning we wish to convey we can play fast and loose with statements about what is or is not the realm of spirit. Thus, for example, if we emphasize soley the transcendental nature of spirit, then religion (and spirit) are obviously “out of this world” and have absolutely nothing in common with earth-bound science. Any attempt to identify spirit with the manifest world of nature is, in this truncated view, charged with the ugly epitaph of “featureless pantheism” and the theologians are all in a tither to explain that “dragging God into the finite realm” supposedly abolishes all values and actually destroys any meaning we could attach to the word “God” or “spirit”.
On the other hand if we commit the equal but opposite error and emphasize solely the immanent nature of spirit, then not only are science and religion compatible, but science becomes a subset of religion, and “The more we know of things [science], the more we know of God [religion]” [Spinoza]. Attempts to place God or spirit in any sort of transcendental “realm beyond” are met with howling charges of “dogmatism and nonsensicality,” and all congratulate themselves on solving the transcendental Mystery, whereas all they have done is ignore it.
Much of this confusion would evaporate if we (1) acknowledge the necessary paradoxicality of verbal formulations of spirit, and (2) simply indicate which aspect of spirit - transcendent or immanent - we mean at any given time. This is not a philosophical nicety; it is an absolutely crucial prerequisite to making any meaningful statement about the role in relation of science and religion.
~ Ken Wilber, Quantum Questions, pp. 14, 15
[Emphasis mine]
When we refer to reality, small r, that is Samsara, the manifest realm. When we refer to Reality, big R,that is the Groundless Ground, from which Samsara rises. I actually would prefer to say Spirit, as that might help jar you beyond thinking of what you see and touch and measure with science. Maybe that might help break this fixation on "reality" you can't seem to get past?