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Thats kind of like saying don't drive a car if you don't want to be in an accidentJensa said:I'm not asking if heterosexual sex is for pleasure as well as procreation, but rather if people shouldn't have it if they're not prepared for having or don't want a child.
Sorta. If you get in a car - be prepared for the fact that you may get in an accident.klubbhead024 said:Thats kind of like saying don't drive a car if you don't want to be in an accident
They can do whatever they like. That includes having unprotected sex for the sole purpose of pleasure.Jensa said:Should a person only have heterosexual sex if they're expecting and prepared for having a child?
Morality does not enter into the equation here or at least I don't think it should. I judge an action based either on the intent or the outcome and both of these methods fail me here:Jensa said:Why or why not?
Jensa said:Is it reasonable to expect people that don't want children to either have only gay sex or never have sex?
The analogy would hold only if there were no other drivers on these hypothetical roads. There is no other human agent here. But yes otherwise I agree. Actually a car accident is one of the biggest things that people take the attitude of "it only happens to other people" over. I say that in doing so, they set themselves up for a fall.klubbhead said:Thats kind of like saying don't drive a car if you don't want to be in an accident
Certainly. That is why infertile heterosexual couples are barred from having sex.Is (straight) sex only for those that wish to procreate?
Why is that?MaddLlama said:Asking people not to have sex because they're not prepared to have children is unreasonable.
SoyLeche said:Why is that?
Sure, there are other avenues - but it is not "unreasonable" to sugget abstinence. It is a perfectly reasonable and healthy lifestyle alternative.MaddLlama said:Because sex is not just about procreation - it is about pleasure. Not everyone wants to have children, and that should not mean that they have to deny themselves this avenue of pleasure. Not only is it pleasurable, but sexual pleasure is good for our health, and committed relationships.
Couples wanting to have this pleasure should, like I said, take precautions to prevent pregnacy if they don't want to have children. Not having sex is not the only option, and it's unreasonable to expect sex to be only for making babies.
Not only is it reasonable - but it is the only way to guarantee that a pregnancy will not occur. Any other method just makes it less likely.SoyLeche said:Sure, there are other avenues - but it is not "unreasonable" to sugget abstinence. It is a perfectly reasonable and healthy lifestyle alternative.
SoyLeche said:Sure, there are other avenues - but it is not "unreasonable" to sugget abstinence. It is a perfectly reasonable and healthy lifestyle alternative.
Are you sure?MaddLlama said:I never said that it's not a reasonable suggestion. The question isn't if it's a "healthy alternative", the question is: should we expect couples who don't want to have children to abstain from sex? I think that is an unreasonable expectation.
I agree - I don't expect it to happen for a lot of people. It worked for me though, and I'm going to teach my children that abstinence is the best approach.Asking people not to have sex because they're not prepared to have children is unreasonable.
I agree - and we are currently using it (probably just for another few months though - we're just about ready to get another one going )nutshell said:If a couple is married and they are not ready for children, but want to experience sex for pleasure, then birth control is available.
Yes, I am sure the question is "should only the people who want to have children have sex", and yes I am sure that is unreasonable.SoyLeche said:Are you sure?
Ah - but that's not what you said in the post I quoted. If you replace the word "Asking" with "Expecting" - then I will agree with you. It is reasonable to ask them not to though.MaddLlama said:Yes, I am sure the question is "should only the people who want to have children have sex", and yes I am sure that is unreasonable.