Although not all deists are cynical about the world. Some just don't believe that God interacts with the world.
I do blame God for creating this world and making is live through it but I don't blame God for not providing any guidance since I believe that Guidance was provided by Baha'u'llah. The Bible was once the only guidance from God but now we have much more.
To be honest, I became this way because of my own suffering, but that does not mean I don't also see the suffering of others. I see it, but I don't see most people suffering as I have and still do. Even with Covid-19 most people have maintained there cheerful upbeat attitudes, ever noticed that? And they are looking forward to going back to their lives as they were before whereas I don't have anything to go back to.
How is this my fault, when I have struggled all my life to change? I believe it is just my fate, and who is responsible for that?