I don't think so. He's being realistic. Funerals including coffins, interment, gravestones, can be very expensive. Those close to me know my wishes I believe I will be in God's memory and he knows every cell of my body and can restore ME to life at his appointed time. My dead body knows nothing. Yes, it is good to show honor to those we love, but that is for the living...because the dead are forgotten in a short time, a few generations. I know only by hearsay of my great grandparents. I don't know what they looked like, what their personalities were. God knows. And I look forward to meet them one day, if it is God's will.