Is Trust, Distrust, Love, Respect and Disrespect Earned?

[Pudding]

(1) How many types of trust you think there're?
Which one of those trust you'll unconditionally give to everyone; 'which one of those trust' people have to earned from you?

(2) How many types of distrust you think there're?
Which one of those distrust you'll unconditionally give to everyone; 'which one of those distrust' people have to earned from you?

(3) How many types of love you think there're?
Which one of those love you'll unconditionally give to everyone; 'which one of those love' people have to earned from you?

(4) How many types of respect you think there're?
Which one of those respect you'll unconditionally give to everyone; 'which one of those respect' people have to earned from you?

(5) How many types of disrespect you think there're?
Which one of those disrespect you'll unconditionally give to everyone; 'which one of those disrespect' people have to earned from you?

 

[Spideymon77]

Everyone has to earn trust from me. The only people I can truly trust are my parents and siblings but even then, they can also be untrustworthy.

The only beings in the Universe that you should unconditionally love is yourself and your family.

I give respect for everybody. I believe in the philosophy that you should always respect others.

I don't necessarily think there are different types of trusts and respects and etc. I think there are different LEVELS but not different TYPES.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I'm going to give the obnoxious answer of both. I have a set minimum of these things I afford to all my fellow mankind, and it goes up or down based on their behavior.

 

[psychoslice]

I don't think their earned, but simply recognized.

 

[Pudding]

Everyone has to earn trust from me. The only people I can truly trust are my parents and siblings but even then, they can also be untrustworthy.

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I give respect for everybody. I believe in the philosophy that you should always respect others.

I don't necessarily think there are different types of trusts and respects and etc. I think there are different LEVELS but not different TYPES.

Thanks for sharing your perspectives.

The only beings in the Universe that you should unconditionally love is yourself and your family.

Why do you think so?

 

[Pudding]

I'm going to give the obnoxious answer of both.

I cannot understand why you think your answer is obnoxious.

I have a set minimum of these things I afford to all my fellow mankind, and it goes up or down based on their behavior.

Please elaborate your set minimum of disrespect which you afford to all your fellow mankind.

 

[Pudding]

I don't think their earned, but simply recognized.

Please elaborate what do you mean by "simply recognized".

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I cannot understand why you think your answer is obnoxious.

Mostly because it's not commiting to an either-or, yes or no answer.

Please elaborate your set minimum of disrespect which you afford to all your fellow mankind.

It's a minimum of respect. They have respect enough to treat them civilly and cordially. But it's not an unconditional respect. They can lose it through behavior. Things like that.

 

[psychoslice]

Please elaborate what do you mean by "simply recognized".

Well don't you recognize when someone is kind to you, I'm sure you don't meet someone and expect them to be kind, if their kind it will show and you simple see them as a kind person.

 

[Pudding]

Mostly because it's not commiting to an either-or, yes or no answer.

It's a minimum of respect. They have respect enough to treat them civilly and cordially. But it's not an unconditional respect. They can lose it through behavior. Things like that.

Thanks for explain.

 

[Pudding]

Well don't you recognize when someone is kind to you, I'm sure you don't meet someone and expect them to be kind, if their kind it will show and you simple see them as a kind person.

Yes, if someone is kind to me then i will recognize that they're a kind person, as a result they earned some trust and respect from me.

 

[psychoslice]

Yes, if someone is kind to me then i will recognize that they're a kind person, as a result they earned some trust and respect from me.

Yes I agree, earning respect come after not before, I like to believe everyone I meet is a nice person, unless I find they ain't, then and only then can I respect them or not, if that makes senses ?..

 

[Pudding]

Yes I agree, earning respect come after not before, I like to believe everyone I meet is a nice person, unless I find they ain't, then and only then can I respect them or not, if that makes senses ?..

Yes your statement makes sense.

 

[Spideymon77]

Why do you think so?

Well, some people come and go. If somebody you fell in love with leaves you, would you want to unconditionally love them? I know I wouldn't.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Trust is essentially a belief. And, like a belief, it's largely not active or in our control. It's what makes sense to us as a result of the amalgamated result of numerous factors, conscious and subconscious,

That being said, I think if you look at "trust" as a realistic expectation of someone's future behavior based on past behavior, personality, experiences, etc., then it's a much more cogent and meaningful concept. Basically, "trust" people to do what they are most likely to do. This may or may not coincide with what they verbally express or promise.

 

[Pudding]

Well, some people come and go. If somebody you fell in love with leaves you, would you want to unconditionally love them? I know I wouldn't.

Thanks for explain, i'll have to think about it.