Being born and raised in Alabama, I will speak from the perspective of one who actually likes the flag and what it means in both American history, and on a personal level...
For starters, it is NOT a symbol for slavery or hatred. Some will interpret it that way, but they do not understand where the South was coming from.
I've lived in the south my whole life and I still have no idea where they are coming from.
Now let's talk about slavery and what is NOT taught in school. Many people do not realize that the Europeans who went into Africa and started shipping slaves over to North America, did not actually conquer the natives and enslave them. No, no, no...African tribes would be at war with each other and the victor would enslave the loser, sell them to the Europeans in exchange for goods (clothing, food, alcohol, weapons) and that is how the slave trade got started in North America. Blacks would enslave other blacks and sell them off.
Seem simplified, so I thought I would check into this, and lo and behold:
"The first 19 or so Africans to reach the English colonies arrived in
Jamestown, Virginia in 1619, brought by Dutch traders who had seized them from a captured Spanish slave ship. The Spanish usually baptized slaves in Africa before embarking them. As English law then considered baptized Christians exempt from slavery, these Africans were treated as indentured servants, and they joined about 1,000 English indentured servants already in the colony. The Africans were freed after a prescribed period and given the use of land and supplies by their former masters. The historian
Ira Berlin noted that what he called the "charter generation" in the colonies was sometimes made up of mixed-race men who were indentured servants, and whose ancestry was African and Iberian. They were descendants of African women and Portuguese and Spanish men who worked in African ports as traders or facilitators in the slave trade. For example,
Anthony Johnson arrived in Virginia in 1621 as an indentured servant; he became a free person of color and became a property owner, even owning slaves. The transformation of the status of Africans from indentured servitude to slavery – which they could not leave or escape – happened gradually.
There were no laws regarding slavery early in Virginia's history. But, in 1640, a Virginia court sentenced
John Punch to slavery after he attempted to flee his service.
[4] The two whites with whom he fled were only sentenced to an additional year of their indenture, and three years' service to the colony.
[5] This marked the first legal sanctioning of slavery in the English colonies and was one of the first legal distinctions made between Europeans and Africans.
[4][6]
In 1654,
John Casor, a black indentured servant, was the first man to be declared a slave in a civil case. He had claimed to an officer that his owner, free black colonist
Anthony Johnson, had held him past his indenture term. A neighbor, Robert Parker told Johnson that if he did not release Casor, Parker would testify in court to this fact; which under local laws, may have resulted in Johnson losing some of his
headright lands. Under duress, Johnson freed Casor, who entered into a seven years' indenture with Parker. Feeling cheated, Johnson sued Parker to repossess Casor. A
Northampton County court ruled for Johnson, declaring that Parker illegally was detaining Casor from his rightful master who legally held him "for the duration of his life".
[9]
During the colonial period, the status of slaves was also affected by interpretations related to the status of foreigners. England had no system of naturalizing immigrants to its island or its colonies. Since persons of African origins were not English subjects by birth, they were among those peoples considered foreigners and generally outside
English common law. In 1656 Virginia,
Elizabeth Key Grinstead, a
mixed-race woman, successfully gained her freedom and that of her son by making her case as the daughter of the free Englishman Thomas Key. She was also a baptized Christian. Her attorney was an English subject, which may have helped her case. (He was also the father of her mixed-race son, and the couple married after Key was freed.)
[10]
Shortly after the Elizabeth Key trial and similar challenges, in 1662 the royal colony of Virginia approved a law adopting the principle of
partus sequitur ventrum (called
partus, for short), stating that any children of an enslaved mother would take her status and be considered born into slavery, regardless if the father were a freeborn Englishman or Christian. This was a reversal of common law practice, which ruled that children of English subjects took the status of the father. The change institutionalized the power relationships between slaveowners and slave women, freed the white men from the legal responsibility to acknowledge or financially support their
mixed-race children, and somewhat confined the open scandal of mixed-race children and
miscegenation to within the slave quarters.
The Virginia
Slave codes of 1705 further defined as slaves those people imported from nations that were not
Christian.
Native Americans who were sold to colonists by other Native Americans, or captured by Europeans during village raids, were also defined as slaves.
[11] This established the basis for the legal enslavement of any non-Christian foreigner.
Slavery in the United States - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
That's not to say that your point about African kings selling slaves is lost. Certainly people who capture and sell slaves to people are just as culpable as those who buy and use them, but that doesn't really resolve the issue about purchasing slaves.
Ironically, Britain's efforts in the 1800's in probably one of the most influential factors in abolishing slavery in many places throughout the world.