I'm not sure how you went from "active and persistent secular discourse, criticism of theocracy and certain cultural norms, and intellectual movements" to "barge into their lands."
Empathy, that's how. Because no doubt, that's how they feel about our antics.
For the record, I'm not talking about the governments, whom I don't give a fig about. I'm talking about the
people.
With moral objectivism, it becomes less a matter of "our way of life" and more a matter of "the most ethical way of life." The word "our" personalizes morality so much that it makes some people hesitant to actively try to spread secularism in theocratic cultures. Maybe it's "our [secularists']" way of life, but that doesn't mean it isn't objectively superior either.
That's the thing: it IS ours.
We came up with it,
we implemented it,
we're trying desparately to maintain it (with debatable success), and
we've been trying to spread it to the rest of the world, rather than just living it as a model, and letting
them come to it on their own terms and in their own time (which was always the more effective method, anyway). Calling it objective is giving it an authority that's just as artificial as that which comes from saying a book was written by God.
One of the things I find unfortunate about the "fascist" argument used by many moral relativists, especially liberal ones, against moral objectivism is that many of those liberals could be argued to act in a fascist manner themselves when they shut down and attack any and all harsh criticism of other cultures as "racist," "supremacist," etc.
I'm not trying to shut you down, nor do I want you to stop arguing your point. I'm presenting arguments for your consideration, just the same as you are for me.
For context, I'm using the word "fascist" in the sense of the word's origin. It comes from that popular parable of
one-stick breaks, many-sticks don't. That is, the Italian word for "fasten", like a group of sticks all "fastened" together in Unity, and stronger, more resistent to being broken as a result. Hence the chilling
One People, One Nation, One Leader.
You seem to be using the word in the more colloquial sense, that being the synonymity between fascist and Orwellian.
And what if Daesh also believes in moral objectivism? I'm not sure if there's a name for this logical fallacy, but the fact that a particular group or groups of people who are murderous, violent, irrational, etc., adopt a certain belief or beliefs doesn't automatically invalidate those beliefs.
In this case, it's not
just that they hold the same belief. (The name of that logical fallacy is Guilt By Association; a popular example being Vegetarianism is evil because Hitler was Vegetarian.) Moral objectivism is one of the core
motivators of their actions, and of similar actions by others in the past.
Hypothetically, fascism
could function as an effective form of government that isn't oppressive or harmful.
As far as I can see, the reality of the world is such that all cultures will have to fight wars at one point or another in their history. As far as that goes, it's not a matter of whether or not to fight; it's a matter of which wars one is willing to fight and which causes one is willing to defend with their life. Saying that moral relativism will avoid wars strikes me as too optimistic and utopian to function effectively in the real world.
Appropriate, because that's pretty much exactly how everything you've been arguing comes off. We're both naive idealists in the others' eyes. (Incidentally, though, I don't believe in Utopia, because the line between utopia and dystopia is very, very thin.)
I never said that moral relativism will avoid wars, and I certainly don't believe it will. To say so would be to imply that, using my wording, Rome somehow introduced war to the places it conquered, which it most certainly DID NOT (heck, I'll be the first to admit that the conquered lands tended to have higher standards of living, and better protection from other invaders; when the Romans left Britain, we showed up and rather violently supplanted the native culture ourselves. "What Have the Romans Ever Done For Us" is the skit I watch whenever I feel my fight-the-empire fire starts burning too bright). However, they did frequently tend to replace the cultures they conquered with their own, and Caesar himself is
directly to blame for the burning of the Library of Alexandria.
And the other thing is, neither will moral objectivism avoid wars (heck, that one can, and does, actively
motivate wars... note that I didn't say
cause, becuase it doesn't do that).
If the ultimate goal of this whole thing is to avoid war,
nope. This has nothing to do with that. Regardless of whether we're moral objectivists or moral relativists, there will always be war as long as there's not enough to go around. The majority of war is driven,
first and foremost before anything else, resources. I'm not talking about this to get to a point of avoiding
all war.