Booko
Deviled Hen
Heavy Metal music has a similiar efffect on me as you describe with things blowing up in movies. I find that whenever I'm really angry, sad or stressed I just pop in a Metal cd and absorb the "energy' that comes out of it. It feels very soothing and calms my emotions.
Ah! I know what you mean. Though for the past few decades, I'm more likely to use Bach organ works, really loud, for the same purpose.
It must be the pedal tones.
Ah yes, music you can FEEL!