I'm taking about a process which has value. The process cannot exist without differences. Yes, there will be things which are right and wrong. The process of uniting them, doesn't change that, instead it sets the stage for a process which has a lot of value and benefit.
So, if we're talking about the trinity, I don't know any Christian who splits the trinity. It's a unity. I'm saying that this process of uniting it is valid and can have value eventhough on the surface it sounds/feels wrong from a montheistic perspective. The trinity is an opportunity. It doesn't need to be seen in a negative way. It can be negative, but it doesn't need to be.