"All who have died without a knowledge of this gospel, who would have received it if they had been permitted to tarry, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God...And ALL children who die before they arrive at the years of accountability are saved in the celestial kingdom of heaven." (D&C 137: 7-10)
I have often wondered about these scriptures. What does it mean to be an "heir to the celestial kingdom?" And does the last part mean we should feel less sorry for the children of Africa with bloated stomachs, and little chance to live? What about the children of, let's say Iran? Had they lived they likely would have been worshipping Allah, and in a worst case scenario perhaps even become a terrorist. Should we consider them lucky if they die young? What are your understandings of these scriptures?
I hope this isn't going too far off topic, but this doctrine is probably the single most difficult doctrine of any in the Church for me to feel good about. I hope I can explain why without offending anybody. (I asked my Stake President about it once and he said I had a good point, so that made me feel like a little less of a heretic.)
Okay, one step at a time. "All who have died without a knowledge of this gospel, who would have received it if they had been permitted to tarry, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God..." To me this is
not saying that anyone who would have accepted the fulness of the gospel during mortality had he been given the opportunity to do so will
automatically go to the Celestial Kingdom. We're all aware, I think, of other scriptures which explain that these individuals will be given the chance to hear and accept the gospel in the Spirit World after their death but prior to their resurrection. Obviously, God knows their hearts and He knows that they have a desire for truth, so He can safely say that they "shall be heirs of the Celestial Kingdom." But they still need to hear and accept the gospel and they still need to have the saving ordinances performed on their behalf by proxy.
So far so good, but let's move on to "...and ALL children who die before they arrive at the years of accountability are saved in the celestial kingdom of heaven." This doesn't make sense to me. While it's true that they are innocent and pure until they have reached the age of accountability, who's to say what kind of choices they would have made had they been allowed to live just a few years longer? It seems to me that it would make a lot more sense for them to have to actually accept the gospel in the Spirit World, just as those who died as adults without having heard the gospel on earth must do. I would think that there would be some children who died who, if given the opportunity in the Spirit World to make an informed decision about the gospel, would not have accepted it. But according to this scripture, they won't even be given this opportunity. In some ways, it seems unfair to those of us who have to go through the experiences of mortality, overcoming temptation, etc. before we can attain the Celestial Kingdom, but in other ways, it seems unfair to the children, too. After all, they never had the joy of realizing that the gospel is true. They never came to this realization on their own, so in a way, they really missed out.
I know that God is not going to be unfair to any of us, so I've got to conclude that, for the time being, there are a few pieces of this puzzle that are missing. Do any of you see what I'm saying and agree? (I have a feeling the answer's going to be "no," since I've had this conversation so many times in the past, and it always is.)