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Learning to love.

verecund

Member
After having a certain religion shoved on me during my childhood (by a nonreligious family, oddly enough! they wanted me to have faith that they never had.), I became very much against religion for a long time. I still don't know how I feel about religion when it relates to me... I identify, more or less, as agnostic. I don't know if there is a God or multiple gods (so, occasionally, I have awkward one-sided conversations thanking them for the simple pleasures of life just in case someone can in fact here me), I don't know if I believe anything happens after death... But I think it's important to be a good person, not because of wanting a reward, but because we live on this planet NOW and should make the most of it. I believe in doing good, no matter what it is: volunteering regularly, buying a cup of coffee for a homeless man sitting outside in the cold, having a listening ear for anyone who needs it (and as important as being there to listen-- keeping whatever was said between us).

I'm happy to say that a couple years ago, I discovered that I love learning about religions. (I love people-- what they think, what they do, what drives them-- so it makes sense that religion and sociology and philosophy all intrigue me.) I recently read a book, "The World's Religions", and often found myself nodding at what was written in the different chapters. I wish I could be every religion-- but that doesn't quite work, now does it? But I admire Jesus and Muhammad and Buddha equally... and learning about these amazing people (prophets/religious figures/whatever they are to you) gives me faith in our species. I often struggle to keep optimistic, with how many not-so-great people there are in the world, but I guess it comes down to quality over quantity. The truly great people accomplish more good for the world than the average nothing-much person hurts the world.

I did this a little backwards, didn't I? Common, for me. Maybe I wanted to write the important stuff first.

verecund is the name here-- you can call me v or vere or however you want to shorten it, as long as I can tell you're talkin' to me, it's all good. ;) I'm 22, a college student, a daughter who doesn't deserve her wonderful parents, a volunteer, a reader, a rambler, a videogame player, a traveler, a photographer, a dreamer, an easily distracted obsessor, a helping hand...

I'm not sure what the weather is like where you live, but last night, I slept with my window open for the first time this year. I'm a sufferer of insomnia, but last night... last night, it was okay. It was beautiful. The world feels different when you can sleep with your window open. It's a more calm world, some how, even though by opening a window you let all the outside stresses in. Maybe it works both ways and lets some of the stress trapped inside the house escape. Maybe it gives you a fresh perspective on the usual stressors. I don't know. All I know is that the world is different when you open your window and let the air dance around you while you rest.

I did mention I'm a rambler up above, right? Yep, I did. Just making sure. Thanks for making it this far, through a long somewhat disconnected intro post. ;) So, in conclusion... Hello!
 
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whereismynotecard

Treasure Hunter
I try not to sleep with my window opened, because I don't want to be raped by my neighbour. I'm glad you can enjoy sleeping with your window open though. :D Anyway, welcome to the forums. I hope you stick around. So many people write an intro and never come back... :(

And I too am a college student, but 19 and also a daughter, but I do think I deserve parents. Good ones. Both of them. and I am most of those other things you said too. At any rate, I like that you believe that being nice is important, because if everyone would just consider the feelings of others and be kind, there would be a lot less to worry about. I try to be nice, but sometimes people tick me off and I'm mean to them...
 

verecund

Member
My father has this little thing he likes to say: "You'll get mugged, raped, killed-- or worse!" We live in a very safe town and he panics because we often forget to lock our door. I also lived in a couple bigger cities and managed to avoid harm... but my apartments were always on the third floor or higher, so I had no need to fear opening windows. If I was on the ground floor, though, I probably wouldn't have opened them! (One friend's apartment, ground floor, had bars on the windows and doors. Kind of creepy.)

We're human. ;) Everyone gets angry, everyone says things they don't mean, everyone is rude when it's uncalled for. It happens! But if, when you're in the right state of mind, you make a good effort to try to consider other people... that's all anyone can ask. Even just thinking about other people can be hard! Most don't seem to want to do it-- they want to do the bare minimum. But really, even simple things can be so important. It's not hard. It's the thought behind the action that counts.

Oh, and I do plan on sticking around. I tend to have a lot of time on my hands... if I've disappeared, it's probably one of my rare busy moments.
 

whereismynotecard

Treasure Hunter
Hooray. :D I'm glad you are planning on staying. :D I used to come online a lot more than I do lately. It's the end of the semester for me though, so I'm very run down. In fact, I'm about 1.5 pages through a 6 page paper at the moment... I'm so screwed... How am I going to write that much!?!?
 

verecund

Member
*hug* I feel ya. My school is kind of a joke... the few papers I've had to write weren't exactly difficult. I think my longest paper, so far, was five pages. The key to getting to that length without burning out is: 1. Choosing a topic broad enough to actually write that much about, and 2. Choosing a topic you enjoy OR already know a decent amount about. (But sometimes, it's a sucky topic and you have no say in it... and then it's just all about how well you can pretend to care.) Good luck with it!

My semester is also winding down, but I'm taking summer classes too. I'll actually miss the teachers I have right now :sad4:, so I'm not looking forward to switching to brand new teachers.
 

GiantHouseKey

Well-Known Member
Greetings

It was raining heavily last night and it is still raining now, so no open windows for me!

I hope you like it here.

GhK.
 

Dezzie

Well-Known Member
Welcome to the forum V! You sound like a very smart and sweet individual. Your words were very kind. I hope you enjoy RF as much as a lot of us do. A lot of the thngs you said are true with me too. I just recently started getting into learning religions, mysteries about the world, and other phenomena. I am 20 and in the Navy. I also love photography and video games. WOOT! :p But anyways... once again... WELCOME! Hope to hear a little more from you around the forum. :)
 

verecund

Member
Hi lava :) Thanks!

It was raining heavily last night and it is still raining now, so no open windows for me!

Too bad :( I hope you get some spring-like weather soon! (In my travels, I've only spent two days in your lovely country, and didn't personally experience it... but I've heard rainy might as well be considered a season in England!)

A late welcome.

Much like a belated birthday present, a late welcome is always... um... welcome.
*note to self: buy a thesaurus*
*note to everyone else: do you ever imagine a librarian dinosaur when you see the word thesaurus? No? I'll go hide under this rock then.*

Nah; there's no wrong way, there's just your way.

Good point.
(And how appropriate: it relates to my "religious" beliefs!)
 
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