My less-than-graceful exit from RF left me feeling that I made a mistake. Not in taking a break, but in how I did it and how I expressed myself in the weeks/months leading up to my depart. In reflecting on it, I came to several conclusions. Here are those conclusions and what I did to address them.
I was overly dependent on half baked opinions that conformed to my own misguided conclusions
- This happens to everyone but only after removing certain social media platforms from my reading list did I realize how bad it was. Accounts on those platforms have been removed.
I was too aggressive to opposing views
- My reaction to counters to my points was set to anger by default. I have updated my config file:
{
reaction.counter: inquisitive
}
I judged others by the worst examples
- This is an unfair tactic that I employed way too often. I would find an extremist view and apply it to others. Instead, I need to meet people on the level of the individual.
I will conclude this with an apology. I am sorry if you read a post I made and felt like I was taking pot shots at you personally. My behavior was not a reflection of you or this community. My behavior was a reflection of myself and I am actively and aggressively seeking to correct it.
I have cleared my ignore list in hopes of a fresh start and I will see ya out there.