What lies beyond the grave?
A trick question? Theoretically, the graveyard lies beyond the grave. :flirt:
Anything, or are we just food for worms? If there's more, do the dead have some sort of consciousness, or are they, as the admittedly poor metaphor goes, simply a drop in the ocean with no sense of identity apart from the whole?
I rather suspect that you will get an endless array of answer to this one but since I am a sucker for these types of threads.
How to say it?
The personality you are now, returns to that which gave rise to it, embellishing the whole self (your larger identity) with the newly aquired physical experience. You add to the overall texture of this larger identity, in a sense, by adding a new cosmopolitan richness to its reality which is the point of physical existence or excursions, rather.
Your personality will survive the confines of physical existence and live on in the memory of this "larger identity". This is the identity "who" you were before you took your last romp into the physical system and though it is an amalgam of all its physical existences, it also perceives reality on its own terms separately from that of the physical personality.
I know this sounds weird, but this larger identity is like a "future" you that you are still in the process of becoming. The kick in the head is that both "you's" continue to grow and follow their own paths. That is a fairly complex thing in itself to discuss, as becoming aware of this aspect of reality represents the initial cognition of the mechanics of multidimensional experience. I cannot stress enough that even though your experience becomes part of the whole self or larger identity, in no way does this dissolve your current (at the point of physical death) self-image, rather each enhances the other.
If the dead continue to exist in some form, what are they up to right now?
Now that I cannot tell you other than perhaps they are learning about different aspects of reality relative to their "next" physical existence. If the individual is at the end of physical endeavors or feels a need for a break from physical existence other options are available.
Can we who are still embodied have any sort of communication with the dead?
In fact you can, but in very limited "meetings" such as in dreams. Such dreams will almost always be quite memorable and will stay wth the individual long after waking. It does require focus however and that is one thing that people in this day and age have not explored to any great degree due to perceptions in regards to dreams in general. (I.E. They are less than "real".)
Other than the above, I couldn't say.
What sorts of practices are appropriate with respect to the dead?
I can't think of anything other than just remembering them. Though I wouldn't suggest that you just strike up a conversation with dear old Auntie Mildred while strolling in the park, she no doubt would look kindly on simply being fondly remembered.
Can/should we pray to them?
I don't believe in prayer, so that would be a big "No!"
Can/should we pray for them?
I suppose, but it is unlikely they are in any need of your prayers.
Can/should we pray with them?
Well, if you can hear them praying then I suppose, but that is a bit of a stretch.
Can/Should we honor them somehow with some sort of ceremony on the anniversary of their death? Or what?
I think it would probably be neat to have a loud, noisy party with them perhaps as the honored guest at the head of the table.
Answers welcome from all and sundry regardless of theological point of view.
Well, I do not claim any of this is right or the "way things are", but this is all representative of how I already perceive these things. As I have said on a few hundred occaisons, "I am as dead right now, as I am ever going to be." :faint: