Massimo2002
Active Member
Because I'm always lonely and having people ignore me life sucks if you are lonely and people don't care about you sexually or romantically it's over.
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Life for me is almost meaningless without sex with people that I find feminine and attractive
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Father Heathen
Veteran Member
That sounds kinda incelish. Work on yourself; exercise, find a hobby, do volunteer work, meet people and make friends (platonic relationships are still meaningful and rewarding). With time, finding potential partners will come easier.
You can still have sex with people you find attractive if you can afford to pay for it, and if you can't afford to pay for it there is always free porn and masturbation in my view.
A trip to Europe can heal your wounds.
I suggest Czech Republic and Hungary.
If those aren't enough, meet me in Rome, I'll introduce you to some friends of mine.
I suggest Czech Republic and Hungary.
If those aren't enough, meet me in Rome, I'll introduce you to some friends of mine.
Absolutely Frank
Member
Sex isn't that big of a deal. It gets routine after a while. It's kind of boring. And I don't understand why people center their lives around sex and make a lifestyle about who they bump uglies with.
Glaurung
Denizen of Niflheim
Firstly, sex without a meaningful relationship won't make you feel any less lonely in the long run. Secondly, if you're weighing the value of your life based on how much sex you're getting then you're setting yourself up to be miserable.
I'm not sexuality active but I don't find my life not worth living because of that. Do something with your time. Learn a language or an instrument, find an online gaming group, buy some weights and lift, read books and perhaps develop a spirituality... Your will is your limit. Fixating on what you don't have rather than what you do have or can get will only suck the joy out of your time here on Earth.
I'm not sexuality active but I don't find my life not worth living because of that. Do something with your time. Learn a language or an instrument, find an online gaming group, buy some weights and lift, read books and perhaps develop a spirituality... Your will is your limit. Fixating on what you don't have rather than what you do have or can get will only suck the joy out of your time here on Earth.
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Shadow Wolf
Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
It might just have something to do with other people not thinking of genitals as "uglies."
Shadow Wolf
Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Sounds like the problem is you. With that attitude you'll never find anyone and be living in your own self fulfilling prophecy.
And is life over? Asexual people don't think so. Children don't think so. There's more to life than sex.
Glaurung
Denizen of Niflheim
I don't want to be totally dismissive as I have sympathies for the OP. I'm not entirely above having such thoughts myself from time to time. But as @Shadow Wolf said, wallowing in self-pity is among the worst things you can do if you want to be attractive to others. Self-pity becomes self-fulfilling.
Absolutely Frank
Member
It's a polite Southern term. I meant no offence, so I beg your pardon.
You're doing it wrong
Absolutely Frank
Member
Maybe I should try monogamy?
Secret Chief
Degrow!
Do you mind, I'm just eating my breakfast.
Secret Chief
Degrow!
Have you tried cake? Alternatively, as Woody Allen pointed out - have you tried sex with someone you love?
- Woody Allen Quote
Hermit Philosopher
Selflessly here for you
Don’t forget that that’s hormonal. It’s natural, especially at a certain age.
However, that does not give us the right to act upon it unless doing so consensually.
If others are not responding positively to you, you must learn to channel your urges constructively.
Humbly
Hermit
Tried it, not as much fun but less complicated
PureX
Veteran Member
You need to figure out how to be your own good companion. How to respect and appreciate yourself. It's unfair to make other people responsible for your happiness. It's exhausting for them.