JayJayDee
Avid JW Bible Student
Very insightful thread Matthew.
Experience is the best teacher. But when experience is lacking, you have to rely on your instincts. Gut instinct is a feeling, not based on anything but the feeling itself. I think we are all intuitive by nature but some of us are more intuitive and some are more trusting than others because we don't want to believe bad things about people. Its hard when we hear things that don't gel with what we know about someone.
My old Nana used to say "don't believe any of what you hear and only half of what you see". That was good advice.
Sometimes experience teaches us painfully that our trust in someone was misplaced. And then that may set us up to mistrust others. Sad cycle isn't it?
But we cannot know people like God knows them. We cannot read hearts....we can only judge by actions and words.
Sometimes we can forgive...but other times the person is unforgivable.
These are all life lessons. All we can hope is that we end up becoming better human beings for the experience instead of basket cases.
Experience is the best teacher. But when experience is lacking, you have to rely on your instincts. Gut instinct is a feeling, not based on anything but the feeling itself. I think we are all intuitive by nature but some of us are more intuitive and some are more trusting than others because we don't want to believe bad things about people. Its hard when we hear things that don't gel with what we know about someone.
My old Nana used to say "don't believe any of what you hear and only half of what you see". That was good advice.
Sometimes experience teaches us painfully that our trust in someone was misplaced. And then that may set us up to mistrust others. Sad cycle isn't it?
But we cannot know people like God knows them. We cannot read hearts....we can only judge by actions and words.
Sometimes we can forgive...but other times the person is unforgivable.
These are all life lessons. All we can hope is that we end up becoming better human beings for the experience instead of basket cases.