The same basis by which I question the Bible and everything in it. I'm on the fence about whether Jesus existed at all, so I'm certainly several steps away from accepting that he said or did anything the Bible describes him as doing.
Ok, I guessed it was something like that but I would rather to have heard it from you. Certainly, the reliability of the Bible is another discussion. For those who do believe in the Bible then, that expectation is established.
I'm talking about trying to convert people to your religion. What are you talking about?
For me it's not about me or my anything. It's about relaying the message from God as an ambassador of sorts and offering a person a chance to come home and reconcile with God. Not my ....., is better than your .... .
No, it's based on the idea that *you* are fallible and have only a partial, subjective understanding of the facts.
Ok.
I'm not sure it's a matter of truth.
I believe it's more than just truth. Truth (what really is) is a vehicle to help people reconnect with God.
It's possible to speak the truth tactlessly.
Absolutely true, I agree.
Are you open to being convinced that those positions are true?
If the reality was that there was a more loving, wise God than the one I know and the one I believe didn't really exist, I believe that God would have the power to show me, in which case I believe so. But that's a tall order.
I've yet to see respectful proselytizing. I'm not sure it can even exist, so I remain unconvinced.
I suspect part of that is you've seen some ugly misrepresentations of the Gospel being preached or taught. And different people define respect differently.
Yes and no. If you're going to market what you're selling as "akin to the cure for cancer," then you take on a heavy moral burden of demonstrating that your claims are actually correct. "We'll find out who's right when we're dead" isn't enough.
That's fair. In the Bible it gives such means of proof
Proverbs 2:3-5 For if you cry for discernment, Lift your voice for understanding; [4] If you seek her as silver And search for her as for hidden treasures; [5] Then you will discern the fear of the LORD And discover the knowledge of God.
John 8:31-32 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. [32] Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
God has the ability to give each person what he/she needs to see through the fog and find Him and what the truth is, if that person will seek Him and puts Jesus's teachings to practice.
I see problems with your analogy. For one thing, there's the exclusivity: you aren't just trying to tell people to try some "awesome root vegetable;" you're also telling them to stop eating every other vegetable they might currently be eating.
... and you're doing this without having considered the nutrition of those other vegetables or the possibility that they have advantages over the one you want them to eat. You just assume without checking that yours is better.
And that's what makes proselytizing disrespectful and arrogant.
That's why I said it's a basic analogy. It was just mean to address the attitude behind spreading the Gospel, one of wanting to offer good news, not one conquest and superiority.
and you're doing this without having considered the nutrition of those other vegetables
Not at all. I take the time to learn where the person's coming from. But if there is an "ultimate" good news and that good news is a vegetable, there can't be a plethora of vegetables. One of them will turn out to be what it claims, and the others will fall short of that. There aren't a variety of ultimate truths.