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Looking for Buddhist communities and schools for children and family

Sridharma

New Member
I'm married with one 16 month old child. We are looking for a school for our son for when he is ready to enter kindergarten and grade school. We don't want to use the public school system for reasons I'm sure most people are aware of. It's a great concern for us that we find a safe school system and a wholesome community.

So we're asking for suggestions from the Buddhist community for schools and 'intentional communities'. We would especially like to hear about schools that have a specifically Buddhist essence. We don't have a need for any specific type of Buddhism (Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetan etc.), any reliable and sincere, non-cult field of Buddhism is fine.
I don't really know where to start looking for Buddhist kindergarten and grade schools.

We are willing to move anywhere in the USA to take advantage of a wholesome Dharma centric school system.
Our main interest is that our son be able to make friends with other children that are raised with Buddha Dharma values. Such as children who's parents have the same values of not allowing things like mainstream TV, movies, video games, violent pop-culture toys and games, etc.
And who hold as high value and teach by example the Brahma Vihara's, the Paramita's, and other Buddha Dharma values and principles.

Along with our search for schools. We are also interested to hear about Buddhist 'intentional communities'. Where families live in close proximity and cooperate due to shared interest in Buddha Dharma.
If anyone can point the way toward helping us find or where to start looking for intentional communities of a Buddhist persuasion we would be very grateful. :)

Even just suggestions for web sites or other forums where we could expand our search.

The Dharma has been the core influence in my life since I found it around the age of 15, I'm now 35. My wife is also of the same interest. We are both sincere practitioners and seekers and I believe we would be a helpful and productive contribution to any sincere non-cult Dharma community.
As I said before we are willing to move anywhere in the USA if we find the right community / school.

Schools and communities that are not specifically or exclusively "Buddhist" are fine, as long as they are based on the same essential values of Dharma (Brahma Vihara's, Paramita's, etc).

Thanks in advance for any help and information.
 

Breathe

Hostis humani generis
Namaste and welcome to RF. Hope you stay a while. :)

I did a quick search, but I only really found these:
Tzu Chi Foundation
Purple Lotus Buddhist School


Perhaps this, too, will be of use to you:

Do Ngak Dzong Dharma Center - Buddhist Education Network


I am not from America but I have been there. Most of the schools that I did a search for were high schools. I expect there would be more chance of a Buddhist school in Hawai'i, though. The Pacific Buddhist Academy of Honolulu, Hawai'i is a Buddhist school, but it's only a high school.

When you say the following:
Schools and communities that are not specifically or exclusively "Buddhist" are fine, as long as they are based on the same essential values of Dharma
Do you mean that you would settle for another Dharmic school, such as a Hindu or Sikh school, or just a mixed, secular school that promotes paramita?


From one father to another, though, I would like to know why you feel the need to send your child to a Buddhist school? Are you concerned about your child being bullied due to being of a different faith, or something else? Would a secular school not be okay? Bearing in mind I am not from America and haven't seen the schooling, so I'm just asking, not accusing.
 

anabopana

New Member
hello, I just joined the network and wanted to respond to your inquiry, should you still be looking.
We have just enrolled our daughter in the "Instilling Goodness" girls' school at the City of Ten Thousand Buddhas, in Ukiah California. They also have an all boy's school. Both programs enroll from pre-k to high school. it is an amazing place and community complete with a vegetarian restaurant, a university program; housing for families, monks and nuns. If you've never heard of it, I would recommend you look it up. Best of luck
 
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