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Lost my job today.

sun rise

The world is on fire
Premium Member
Sorry to hear about the job loss. From experience I know it's tough. But from what I see you're all about bouncing back and that's admirable.
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
Sorry to hear about the job loss. From experience I know it's tough. But from what I see you're all about bouncing back and that's admirable.
Yeah it's a bit like my revisit back to the 80s were when losing your job was Far Far tougher than it is now.

My focus is on College for spring but I'm also keeping my eye open for other opportunities should they be attractive enough should the need arise that I would need to do so.

I plan to first study what state programs are available such as Excelsior and where I could apply for educational aid to get the ball rolling, and to see if there's anything available in NY for people in health situations like mine that fall within criteria to receive aid for someone with disabilities but can still work.

I know for the Excelsior program in New York I have to be enrolled full-time, and maintain a certain grade point average to remain qualified. It's an excellent program , but there are "catches".
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
what kind of permits you need to haul a truck load of cocaine? Asking for a friend.
Lol. I remember during a DOT inspection the officer asked me what I'm hauling. I said coke. He replied, The white stuff? Cracked up laughing.
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
How old would you be if you don't attend college?

For what it is worth, I did not enter the rabbinate until I was at an age when most rabbis are retiring or close to it.

Life is very often less than we would like it to be. So many things we have no control over. What, hopefully, we can control is how we respond.

You seem to be responding well.

Yeah I credit some of the Buddhist training and also some of the medicine I'm taking.

Normally I'd be Don Knox flustered and all panicky and that. Now I take it like droopy the dog. *Grin*
 

Daemon Sophic

Avatar in flux
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..
Sorry to hear it @Nowhere Man.
To (very loosely) paraphrase @Quetzal , even though you are (god-awful) wrong in your political viewpoints, it sounds like you have a good plan there, and I wish you the best of luck.
I was in my late 40’s when I got sacked from my planned ‘lifelong career’, but with work, luck, and friends I’ve been working a new job for several years now, and still taking on more.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
Sorry to hear about your job loss, NM. Hope some opportunities come your way soon.
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..

Sorry to hear that, hope everything works out for you. Good luck
 

PuerAzaelis

Unknown Friend
Make sure to keep up your self care.
^^^

A couple of years ago I was unemployed for nine months. It's like anything else there are periods where you think nothing will ever happen, then all of a sudden 3-4 possibilities appear on the horizon. Keep the faith and don't go to the dark place.
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
^^^

A couple of years ago I was unemployed for nine months. It's like anything else there are periods where you think nothing will ever happen, then all of a sudden 3-4 possibilities appear on the horizon. Keep the faith and don't go to the dark place.
I actually feel pretty crummy right now and I think a dark place is okay as long as you don't dwell in it as a permanent abode .

I think the Chinese Parable , The farmer's son ("maybe, maybe not" ) would be the best "scripture" for me while I'm in this particular situation. It helps remind me of the relationships between dark situations and the light breaking through as you go through the ups and downs emotionally dealing with what the future may or may not bring.
 

Milton Platt

Well-Known Member
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..

I am very sorry to hear that. I lost my job years ago through no fault of my own, and it turned out to be the best thing to ever happennto me. It shook me up so deeply, that it caused me to change career paths comletely, re-educate myself, and my life ended up far better in the end. So here’s hoping your tragedy also has a silver lining....
 

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
Sorry to hear this (the OP), and best of luck finding a place whereas you'll be comfortable and happy.
 

Quagmire

Imaginary talking monkey
Staff member
Premium Member
It's probably because I'm focused on my second childhood dream. A career in Creative Arts.

Best of luck, Nowhere Man. :thumbsup:

(One of the cool things about life is that sometimes it has a way of tricking us into doing what we wanted to do anyway. :D)
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
I am very sorry to hear that. I lost my job years ago through no fault of my own, and it turned out to be the best thing to ever happennto me. It shook me up so deeply, that it caused me to change career paths comletely, re-educate myself, and my life ended up far better in the end. So here’s hoping your tragedy also has a silver lining....
Yeah my health issues were affecting my work even though I had an incredible and understanding employer which is rare these days. Also seems like I can get a help for people with disabilities and also my veteran status when I was in the army. I have an honorable discharge.

I usually diss government agencies , but I was actually a bit impressed with the friendliness and helpfulness of the staff there. The only problem is I can't apply for benefits until Monday because I make above a certain amount and that I have my last paycheck pending.

They also have programs for reeducation which is the area I'm interested in. There is a curveball with the Excelsior program though. I'm still required to look for work while in school and given that school is full time I don't know if I'll be able to do it or not. I guess it depends upon what's available and what can be done.

I've never been on Unemployment before.
 

Kangaroo Feathers

Yea, it is written in the Book of Cyril...
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..
Losing a job you rely on is the worst. I feel for you. I hope you find a new opportunity soon.
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
Just an update on my job situation....

Just received the excellent news today I was just hired by a trucking company based in Ohio for a shuttle position driving a tractor-trailer from Buffalo to Pittsburgh and back. I can finally get off the unemployment roll , pay back some back bills, and save up for that Kick-*** gaming computer I'm dreaming about. Best part is I'm no longer on sucky mileage pay. I have an actual salary with performance bonuses.

I appreciate the kind words of support from all who posted here.

Time to ride with my brothers again. :O]


 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..
At least yer still just a kid.

Let this help carry you thru both tough & easy times ahead....
th
 

TransmutingSoul

One Planet, One People, Please!
Premium Member
The Manufacturing plant I was working out of got permanently shuttered admist a lengthy Court battle.

I was working for a trucking company that was integrated in with the facilities. Most of the Commodities I hauled where coke, coal, and metals.

It took my company with it and the jobs of well over a hundred people working there. Many with Children and Families.

Thought I'd be able to finish the week as I had a run set for Toronto tomorrow, but got the news today that my run was cancelled as the company is permanently closing.

The thing that hurts most is the owners and the management staff. They actually respected everyone working for them and treated their employees like human beings.

Had a round of goodbyes to my co-workers and management and staff. It was harder than I thought as a lot of them were taking things pretty hard given all the years of hard work and labor they put into the business.

It serves as a reminder that nothing is permanent and the only thing we can do is go forward For Better or For Worse.

I plan on attending college this spring to fulfill one of my past regrets as a young adult out of school when I passed up the opportunity for a graphic design degree for which I was accepted at that time.

I'm probably going to be the only fifty-three-year-old in class . Sigh. But it's a new dawn. ..

Good on you. That is the way to tackle life and there is always a reason. :)

I wish you all the best in what the future holds for you and family. If you live in a city, now a good time for the country. Also a wisdom in that as cities are for bodies, country is for mind.

Regards Tony
 

Bob the Unbeliever

Well-Known Member
Just an update on my job situation....

Just received the excellent news today I was just hired by a trucking company based in Ohio for a shuttle position driving a tractor-trailer from Buffalo to Pittsburgh and back. I can finally get off the unemployment roll , pay back some back bills, and save up for that Kick-*** gaming computer I'm dreaming about. Best part is I'm no longer on sucky mileage pay. I have an actual salary with performance bonuses.

I appreciate the kind words of support from all who posted here.

Time to ride with my brothers again. :O]



Brilliant! That is most excellent news!

Re: gaming computer--

I recently purchased an Alienware 17R5 laptop. I got a refurbished one, so I saved over $700 from new. It sports a kickin' NVIDIA graphics card, (1070), a 2560 x 1440 display, 17" screen, mechanical keyboard, all the bells and whistles. (got an inheritance)

I expect it'll be the last PC I own, as by the time it becomes obsolete? I'll be too brain damaged (due to age) do use a computer anyway. Win-win! :D

My only beef, is it's kinda heavy for a laptop. It's easy to get refurbs from Dell, they have a dedicated "store" for just that thing. And it sports the full warranty (not the usual 90 day wimpy one)
 
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