I didn't want my nephew to be circumcised but it wasn't my decision. The doctor used an anesthetic, so the experience wasn't that big of a deal for the baby. Like me he will probably never give a dam about it.
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A 'Right' means that other people cannot interfere with you in some way. If you outlaw circumcision you effectively outlaw both Judaism and Islam, so you interfere with the right of each religion to exist. Its because in those religions circumcision is not optional.
Not really. What I'm saying is religions have a right to exist, and parents have a right to make choices for their children. If you don't like circumcision, then you can either take the children away from the religious parents or not. You can't decide for them that its wrong.
When you say things like this "Stopping parents from subjecting their babies..." you are talking about laws. You can call it unwarranted, but its only your opinion. No its not achievable. Solve world hunger first, and then maybe you can work on convincing everyone to accept your opinion. If you outlaw circumcision now, today, you outlaw religions, so the courts will therefore overturn your laws. Its not simple like outlawing cocaine. You can actually outlaw cocaine. The USA has wars against illegal cocaine for 80 years unsuccessfully, but the laws against are upheld by the courts. Laws against circumcision will not hold here. Perhaps in some Norwegian or European country they might. We will see.
Not to interrupt this conversation or get off topic but I want to know something. As you know a lot of parents who have female children get their ears pierced when they are infants often to mark them as female...do you consider this a 'mutilation' as well?
Medically backed up by you? Medical professionals don't seem to have a problem with it. Unwarranted according to you? You don't value religion, so you are biased against anything religious.Alex_G said:Unwarranted is not just my opinion, its medically backed up. Its surgery that has no specific indication and is not a choice made by the individual but rather chosen for them by virtue of religious ritual. That is as 'unwarranted' a surgery as you can get.
The points raised against its practices were addressed by various other members posts, and what I meant here was that your opinion that infant circumcision is wrong is not shared by everyone.Firstly the tackling of different world problems both great and small, arnt mutually exclusive or constrained to single file attention. Saying i should solve world hunger first, however flattering that you think i possibly could, is an irrelevancy that does not defend religious infant circumcision, or address the points raised against its practice.
If I let you determine what proper education and governance was you would apparently attempt to form each citizen into a mirror image of yourself, but you would fail. Such an approach to education is neither proper nor good. Such measures are doomed to fail as has been demonstrated before in history, repeatedly. There some things that people cannot trust you with, and choice of religion is one of them including religions that include circumcision of sons.Through proper education and governance i think it is quite possible to discourage its practice. Even if it was banned, (which has problems) thats not the same thing as banning religion, which you seem to think is.
Freedom of expression is insufficient to secure freedom of religion even in combination with the right to live your life in your own way. That is why freedom of religion is given its own clause in legal documents such as constitutions. It includes freedom to rear your children in the way that you think is right as part of your own religious group.Religion is protected in principle by a freedom to expression, and an right to live your life the way you choose to. This freedom however should be limited if its exercise directly constrains the freedom of another. My issue with religiously fuelled infant circumcision echoes exactly that distinction.
Medically backed up by you? Medical professionals don't seem to have a problem with it. Unwarranted according to you? You don't value religion, so you are biased against anything religious.
The points raised against its practices were addressed by various other members posts, and what I meant here was that your opinion that infant circumcision is wrong is not shared by everyone.
If I let you determine what proper education and governance was you would apparently attempt to form each citizen into a mirror image of yourself, but you would fail. Such an approach to education is neither proper nor good. Such measures are doomed to fail as has been demonstrated before in history, repeatedly. There some things that people cannot trust you with, and choice of religion is one of them including religions that include circumcision of sons.
Freedom of expression is insufficient to secure freedom of religion even in combination with the right to live your life in your own way. That is why freedom of religion is given its own clause in legal documents such as constitutions. It includes freedom to rear your children in the way that you think is right as part of your own religious group.
Oh don't be shy join this no holds bar debate beatdownI don't have a penis so I don't think it's my place to debate someone on this topic. But I am generally uncomfortable with any body modifications that are decided for a person without their consent.
Thus the only real reason infants are being circucised beyond a specific medical indication is because of religious reasons, which dont exemplify holding the childs best interests first.
Just pointing out, while circumcision is religious in origin, it's continued prevalence in the US is more cultural or traditional than anything. Thus, most parents do not get their child circumcised for religious reasons, but because that is the norm in their culture, and so they don't even think about it, or they do it so that their child will be "normal".
Just pointing out, while circumcision is religious in origin, it's continued prevalence in the US is more cultural or traditional than anything. Thus, most parents do not get their child circumcised for religious reasons, but because that is the norm in their culture, and so they don't even think about it, or they do it so that their child will be "normal".
Oh don't be shy join this no holds bar debate beatdown
Besides just imagine if you were going to have a baby boy and start from there
And I've met a few African immigrants who had tribal marks (small scarification patterns) on their cheeks. They certainly didn't look ugly, and they lived just fine. But compare circumcision to scarification and the circumcision advocates freak right out.I don't think I would circumcise my son, unless it were part of my religion. Then I would. I probably wouldn't pierce the ears of my daughter if I had one, but I would let her mom do it. Is circumcision bad? I don't know. I think I wish my parents hadn't circumcised me, but I really think my penis is serviceable.
How would it "choose your religion for you" if you were delayed from getting circumcised until you could choose it for yourself? If anything, I see it as the opposite: religious circumcision is an attempt to choose the religion for the man the child will become.Implementing laws against circumcision would choose my religion for me, so yes they would be bad.
The American Academy on Pediatrics (AAP), which is a rather conservative and measured medical association changed their position last year and now recommends circumcision for newborns. They didn't conclude that the factors were severe enough to recommend that circumcision should be compulsory, but that it should ultimately be up to parents. However, after a thorough review of the studies, statistics, and facts, they concluded that the health benefits outweigh the risks enough for them to recommend that parents circumsize newborn boys.
I don't see any reasonable argument to value an uninformed medical opinion about children over that of the AAP's.
Can you give an example of any medical society in any country where circumcision wasn't already common that recommended in favour of the practice?
I can see how you as a doctor might feel concerned, since you are the one who's got to perform procedures.Alex G said:Routine circumcision was common in the 19th century with medical practitioners believing it to be more hygienic than not performing it. This widespread practice gradually become less common....routine circumcision of infants violates the principle of consent to treatment,....the only real reason infants are being circucised beyond a specific medical indication is because of religious reasons, ... you see its really not about the opinion of one person.... and just for the record, im one of these medical professionals being a doctor. Quick Reference Circumcision - NHS Choices
Perhaps its a moral failing, but perhaps it isn't. I have tried to point out that circumcision is central to two major religions. You seem to underplay the impact that religious parents have on their children. The religion itself has a far greater effect than physical circumcision, yet children don't get to decide the religion they are reared in. There are many things children do not get to decide, because it is up to their parents.I dont see them to have been adequately addressed. I think religiously driven infant circumcision is morally wrong for many pretty strong reasons, some of which i will list again further down. Just because a view isnt shared by everyone, doesnt mean that there is no right answer. Through reason I'm advocating that the right answer is that it is indeed a moral failing.
Sorry if I gave that impression. I don't see you as an enemy at all.You seem obsessed with reducing this issue to something personal about me, its got nothing to do with me.Education and counsel is not a fancy way of saying i want to push some dogma of my own (which would be in principle as unjust as the religious motivation that i take issue with), but would be rooted in scientific fact, statistics and moral reasoning.
We should not discount that data, of course. Of course the surgery is performed originally for religious reasons, and I recognize that. I'm saying that you don't have the ability to weigh all the potential benefits for someone else's children. You can weigh the medical benefits, but its not up to you to dismiss the religious benefits and determine whether the child should be religious or not or how religious they ought to be. If the parent believes there is a benefit for religious reasons, then they should take it into consideration.With the knowledge that the routine practice beyond the specific medical indications is not advised, because the risks of complications such as bleeding, infection, aesthetic and functional issues outweighing any potential benefits. As a result there is no good reason for an infant to have the surgery as routine, with it only happening today because of religious motivation.
You are underplaying the huge role that parents play in the upbringing of children and the impact of a religion. Unfortunately there is no substitute for parents. What you show is that you simply don't believe children should be taught a religion at all. Compared to the impact of a religious parent, circumcision is nothing. Its like 10,000 circumcisions; but you can't replace that religious parent. The child is stuck with them, is relying upon them and has to please them.1. The children that are being circumcised are too young to full appreciate complex ideas that surround religious belief, just as they are too young to appreciate political ideas. A child cannot be a religious child, any more that it can be a conservative or socialist child. Its parents projecting their belief system onto a child.
So the only morally responsible parents are those who are willing to give up everything they believe? Their religion is a part of who they are. It would be immoral if they didn't pass it on.2. Children are innocent and vulnerable, both mentally and physically. They need the protection of their parents. It is parental duty to act in their best interest.
It represents religion, period. Religion hurts, and parents are not angels or naturally capable protectors of children, yet they give birth.3. It represents a malignant aspect of religion that makes good people do bad things, and it protects these actions that should be reprehensible, and really would be in any other scenario.
Arguing that culture and tradition have so little value is the only way you can make male circumcision out to be a terribly immoral choice. You may as well say that parents should be shamed off the map for wanting to have children at all in this awful world full of pain.5. Arguing that no circumcision would result in cultural difficulties for the child within the traditions of the parents religion clearly shows a problem with religion and the culture, not that the problem is a child keeping its foreskin.
I think I understand what you are saying. My argument is that parents value their faith and that the parents cannot be replaced, therefore their religion cannot be exchanged for something that the doctors would consider to be healthier for the children.Taking all this together i think its quite a compelling case against religious circumcision of infants.
The influence of religious ritual can extend further than those who strictly identify as religious. Think about Christmas. Except the problem is, circumcision is no Christmas.
So it seems to me that your happy to discredit my position regarding its moral quality based on the fact that i attribute its origin and sustained motivation to religion, which you have decided is too narrow, because religious culture and practice couldnt possibly influence non-religious people too.
I think you'll find your assessment the narrow one....
I think I understand what you are saying. My argument is that parents value their faith and that the parents cannot be replaced,
therefore their religion cannot be exchanged for something that the doctors would consider to be healthier for the children.
The problem with your analysis is that you keep suggesting that they are doing it for religious reasons. From my understanding, circumcision did not become popular in the u.s. for religious reasons. Therefore, if a parent circumcises their child so their child's penis looks similar to the child's father, this is not a religious reason.
I have even known single mother who had her son circumcised because of unpleasant experience with intact men. I hardly see this as a religious reason. Simply because you feel circumcision traces back to religion does not mean all people circumcise their children for religious reasons.
But hey, nice attempt.