Mary and Joseph inaugurated a new heaven and a new earth. They realized that every child is a child of God and every birth is to celebrated as Christmas. All human parents are foster parents to God's children. When we try appropriate them for ourselves then we commit sin. Mary and also Joseph were sinless because they realized that their child was God child. Before Mary and Joseph God asked Abraham to do the same. Abraham became a virgin Father. I like to share with you two parables which I wrote, The Sacrifice of Isaac and Virgin parents. They are part of my new book 'The Ganges and the Jordan Meet: Reincarnation and Resurrection.(Published by ISPCK,New Delhi, 2014) There parables were also published in the Bede Griffiths Sangha News letter, which is our own, so there is no problem of copy right. These parables reveal what real virginity is and what sin is.
THE SACRIFICE OF ISAAC
When Isaac was twelve years old, God appeared to Abraham and said: Abraham, Abraham.
Abraham said: Here I am Lord.
God said: since Isaac has become an adult, sacrifice him to me.
Abraham said: My Lord, if that is your will, I am ready and willing to do it. But forgive me if I ask you one question for your sake. You have promised me that my descendants will be like the stars of heaven and the sand of the sea. You have granted me only one Son, Isaac, through my wife Sarah and said that Isaac would be my heir and through Isaac my generations would continue and be blessed. Now if I sacrifice my only son, Isaac, how can you fulfill your promise? Will it not be going back on your promise?
God said to Abraham: Abraham, I have not asked you to sacrifice Isaac physically. I have asked you to sacrifice your inner Isaac which is your desire for continuity because with your desire for continuity you have killed Isaac psychologically and spiritually. Isaac has no life of his own but he is born just to be your continuity. He is born just to fulfill your physical and psychological desires and ambitions. You have become a burden to Isaac. Yes, it is true, that I have promised you that your descendants would be like the stars of the heaven and the sand of the sea. But I have not promised you that they would be just like your replicas, like your clones. I choose everyone for eternity and not for continuity. Each one is my unique manifestation and each one is born to manifest eternity and not continuity. Each one is born for unfolding life and not for becoming. To choose children just for one’s physical or psychological continuity is to kill them internally. Yes, your progeny will be like the stars of heaven and the sand of the sea but each star will be unique and each grain of sand will be unique. For this you need to sacrifice your inner Isaac, which is your desire for continuity. If you do that then you live for eternity and choose Isaac for eternity and all the generations that come in the future will be blessed in you and consider you their father, Abraham, as you have chosen them for eternity and have given them real life.
Abraham rose early in the morning, took Isaac with him and walked to the mountain of the Lord. After reaching the top of the mountain, Abraham made Isaac to sit on a little higher place and began to wash his feet. Isaac was surprised and said: Father, what are you doing? It is never heard of in our land that a father washes the feet of his child. It is I who need to wash your feet and not you mine. I cannot allow this.
Abraham replied: My son, this is the will of God and I need to fulfill it. This washing of your feet is only symbolic of my sacrifice of you to God. Then Isaac allowed his father to wash his feet. As Abraham poured water on the feet of his son, Isaac, he said: my son, you are a unique manifestation of God and you have to live that uniqueness according to the will of God. You are manifested for God, for eternity, not for the continuity of past. Your vocation is to unfold life and not to imitate anyone. I sacrifice all my ambitions I have for you so that you may have life of your own. I chose you for God, for eternity and not for my continuity. My duty, as your physical father, is to help you to discover your uniqueness, your unique call from God. I promise that I will do what God expects of me for you’.
After this Abraham and Isaac returned home.
VIRGIN PARENTS
Once when Anna was pregnant and when Anna and her husband John were praying, the Angle Gabriel stood in front of them and said, Hail Anna and John, full of grace, the Lord is with you. Anna and John were in awe to hear this strange greeting and to see a form that was almost invisible. John asked: who are you Lord and what this greeting mean? The angle replied: I am Archangel Gabriel and I serve in the presence of God. I come to you with a message from God. John asked: Lord, what is that message? The Angel replied: God wants you to be virgin parents and to be an example to the future mankind. Anna replied: Lord what does it mean to be virgin parents? We are married and I am now sixth month pregnant also. How can we be virgin parents? The Angle replied: Anna and John, you become virgin parents by realizing that your children are not your children but God’s children came through you. You become virgin parents when you renounce your personal ambitions for your children and chose them for God, for eternity. You become virgin parents when you affirm that your children are unique manifestation of God and are not meant to be used for others for continuity. You become virgin parents when you serve children as foster parents to God’s children.
Unfortunately and ignorantly parents imagine that children are their children. They nourish personal ambitions for their children and chose them for their continuity and thus take away their uniqueness. God wants you to affirm this truth and be an example of this truth to the whole of humanity, as Mary and Joseph did before.
Anna and John replied: we are the servants of the Lord, let God’s will be done in us. Then the angle left them. After three months Anna gave birth to twins: a girl and a boy. When all their relatives and friends gathered around them and asked them: what names will you give to your children? Anna and John declared: these children are not our children but God’s children. We are only foster parents to God’s children. These children will be called, ‘the Daughter of God’ and ‘the Son of God’. Everyone present there were amazed with these words and glorified God.