Here's a couple of horror stories for you:
You are dependent on your boss for the money you need for food and shelter.
You are dependent on your local government for infrastructure, services, education.
You are dependent on your friends and acquaintances for your social security and mental health.
As an infant, you were dependent on your parents for all aspects of your survival.
As an adult you are still dependent on other people in all aspects of your life.
In truth, there is nothing horrific or scary about being dependent on others. Being human is being a social animal, an animal that literally needs its fellow animals to survive and thrive.
To paraphrase a passage from one of my favorite works of fiction of all time, no one will save us if we do not reach out our hand, and the hand we grasp will always be just as empty as ours; all we have is what we are, and what we give.