Gravity does not "slow time down".
Gravity affect the devices we use to measure time.
It slows them down.
Like length, mass, position, and any other physical quantity you can think of, time is *defined* by certain devices/methods we use to measure it and standards for comparing measurements. Lots of things can affect the devices we use to measure anything......merely approaching some pH meters will throw off the reading.....but only an actual change in the thing being measured (time, pH), by definition, will give a different measured result if the measurement is performed under controlled conditions, which are designed based on the definition of the physical quantity being measured.
linwood said:
"Infinately dense" is an impossibility in the physical universe of matter and energy that we know.
Someone should tell the electrons, before they get in trouble.
linwood said:
The "singularity" in the popular Big Bang model is an invention of an imaginative mind.
True but so was the heliocentric model.....but anyway you are right, no one knows about the singularity, it's one possibility within the big bang model. But I really don't think the singularity is logically or practically impossible, we just don't have all the evidence in.
I think you just don't like the concept of infinity, and I don't blame you, and I agree with you that many physicists do not do a great job of explaining things.
But look, let's assume you are right, nothing can be infinitely dense. We are still going to have to deal with "infinite" things sooner or later. So let's imagine we take a non-infinitely dense object....an object with some mass and some non-zero volume.....and break it into smaller and smaller pieces. What do we end up with? Quarks and leptons? Whatever the pieces are, they have mass, and therefore they must have some non-zero volume (otherwise they would be infinitely dense, which we assume is impossible). So then we must be able to break them into smaller pieces too, and those pieces must break into smaller pieces, and on and on. So what are objects made of, ultimately? Apparently, they are made of an infinite number of infinitely tiny pieces with infinitely-small masses. Now we have THREE infinite quantities where before (when we assumed some things can be infinitely dense) we only had one. Oh dear!
Arguably we were better off thinking of the hydrogen atom as being composed of TWO (not infinite) pieces, each of which has a mass (again not infinite)....and of course we are just philosophizing here, we haven't even touched the experimental data yet....that's funny, I don't see an infinite number of lines in the spectrum of hydrogen I see a finite number with finite spacings....
You have the right intuition, I think, by not being overimpressed by the mysticism of "infinity" and "curved spacetime" etc. You're absolutely right, these are man-made concepts, don't be fooled into thinking they are divine law or obvious truth. But even though they are abused and misused by those with a more mystical outlook they actually are perfectly good ideas, on par with "negative numbers" and 3D space as far as the facts are concerned.