And that goal is something I dont see as wisdom. I thought this was obvious from my previous comment.
To quote wiki (for the sole purpose of getting a definition to work with) Wisdom is an ideal that has been celebrated since antiquity as the knowledge needed to live a good life.
God(s) and belief/non belief is not needed/relevant to live a good life which is I why I dont regard making believers wise in the ways of God's kingdom as a form of wisdom.
Saying that believers need to be wise -- and not just wise, but wise in the ways of God has no connection with wisdom IMO.
Or to put it another way, to compare the wisdom of two sources it is necessary to compare them as imparters of knowledge for how to live a good life. Something like love thy neighbour would come under that but something like love the lord your god doesnt IMO.
You're not a believer. Since the parables are for believers, it wouldn't make sense for them to work for you as wisdom. Why would you want to take an antihistamine if you have a bacterial infection? That wouldn't be wise, either. But...for those who
do have such an infection, an antibiotic might be a really good idea.
"Love thy neighbor" isn't a parable. Not cogent here. However, there
is a parable that follows that injunction. When Jesus said that it was a good idea to love your neighbor, someone asked, "Who is my neighbor?" This statement was part and parcel of "conventional wisdom," which said that a good Jew only had to love the
laos and not the
ethne. There was a boundary drawn between those who were part of God's people and who were not. The parable turns that boundary upside down with the wisdom that the boundary is nonexistent. But that parable doesn't make sense to anyone who doesn't already buy into the cultural distinction between
laos and
ethne. For those who struggle with the concept of love and how God wants us to love, however, the parable becomes an extremely important piece of wisdom.
I think we have to ask ourselves: "What is necessary for the believer to live a good life?" A good answer might be that the believer live according to the tenets of the faith that directs his/her life. In that case, the parable in question helps immensely.