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Need to interview someone of the Hindu faith. Would anyone be willing to answer the following:

Lisa Gonzales

New Member
Would anyone be willing to answer any or all of the following questions about their experiences being a member of the Hindu religion. Feel free to add anything that you feel is important to know that has helped you practice your religion living in the US.

1. Early childhood experiences and parental values growing up in the Hindu religion.
2. Earliest memories of recognizing being part of the Hindu religion
3. The role of religion/spirituality in your daily life
5. Similarities/differences interactions in American culture compared to Hindu culture
6. School experiences as a member of the Hindu Religion
7. Experiences with subtle racism or discrimination
8. Experiences with overt racism or discrimination
9. The experience of being culturally different (any examples would be great)
10. Attitudes about the “majority” culture
11. Any feelings of oppression from other cultures
12. Any strengths that help you cope and practice the Hindu religion in the US
Thanks!!
 

ShivaFan

Satyameva Jayate
Premium Member
1. Early childhood experiences and parental values growing up in the Hindu religion.

Hinduism exists in many parts of the world, and many Hindus have also come to the U.S. as well where I grew up. I grew up at a time when Hindu movements were first arriving in America as well as indigenous outcroppings, and at a time when there was sort of a religious renaissance in general during the 1960s and 70s which included a heightened interest in "Eastern Religions" as well. It was exciting times, my Mother already had an interest in Buddhism, and in California the acceptance of Dharma based religion was not only easily and openly expressed, it was seen as a positive thing despite some minor opposition. I recall doing Suryanamskar as a child with other children in the neighborhood, or making Shiva Lingams out of mud-sand and water at various lakes sides and beaches. Early on I had an awareness of the Hindu Family of Shiva, Krishna, Rama, Hanuman as well as Buddha, Jainism, Sikhism. By the later teen years I had already visited many temples in my area, had many like minded associations, which later coupled with Hinduism being global, led to travel to different countries which was very rewarding. None of my Hindu activity ever compromised my pride in America, nor my patriotism.

2. Earliest memories of recognizing being part of the Hindu religion

Meeting several savants who soon became famous Gurus, meeting and having wonderful Hindu adventures with lay Hindus and "devotees", learning new "languages" (Hindu words), enjoying bhajans (devotional singing), reading great epics such as the Ramayana. My earliest memory of recognizing Hinduism was encountering Ganapati (Ganesha, a Son of Shiva) not seeking but found. I recall sharing Ganesha with other children as well, I have zero doubt several later became Hindu.


3. The role of religion/spirituality in your daily life

I am a "lay Hindu". That means the same average Hindu in society as a Hindu any place else. I enjoy going to temples, celebrations and rites, fellow family members, pilgrimages, food and prashad (holy offerings), home shrines, on and on.

5. Similarities/differences interactions in American culture compared to Hindu culture

The one divide comes to food habits. But increasingly, I notice more and more fellow Americans avoiding beef and pork, or going vegetarian. More and more Americans now are starting to want to protect animal friends as well instead of considering them without a soul. In part this is an interest in nature and wildlife, but also more are liking to be among animals in a more natural way and seeing them as partners in the world.

6. School experiences as a member of the Hindu Religion

In my University days, there was an Indian Professor. He was beloved by many, many students. He taught many things, but he had ancient India, the philosophy schools of India, aspects of Hinduism and Buddhism from a scholarly view into the curriculum. He was a genius. He was beloved by students.

7. Experiences with subtle racism or discrimination

Honestly, this really wasn't an issue for me. In fact, if anything, being Hindu attracted more friends as well as meeting many people. Keep in mind, I am "white". I did not encounter "racism" as is thought of. Racism exists, but by the 1970s was very rare in my time.


8. Experiences with overt racism or discrimination

Never racism. Much later on the internet however, I did encounter some Hindus who would discriminate against me based on birth-based caste notions who called me "no caste" or chandala (outside caste) but never in a temple etc. Only a few times on some internet site. That was hurtful.

9. The experience of being culturally different (any examples would be great)

Sometimes jealousy over the wonderful garmets Hindu women wear. But positive one's too, such as others discovery of wonderful food items. Mostly positive actually.

10. Attitudes about the “majority” culture

I am a born American, married into a good family from India. American people have been wonderful, loving, greeting, even clinging, to my Hindu wife from India and my entire extended Hindu family which resides all over the world.

11. Any feelings of oppression from other cultures

Yes, I will mention that, but it did not happen in America. Islamic extremists threatened my life in the United Kingdom.

12. Any strengths that help you cope and practice the Hindu religion in the US

It is easy to be a Hindu for me, because it is the greatest fun and adventure one can imagine.
 
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ShivaFan

Satyameva Jayate
Premium Member
Actually, one slight update to my reply regarding racism. The only events I can recall that would actually fit into the category, were the times I encountered obvious racism simply BECAUSE I was white. This came from a few "non-whites" no reference to Indians by the way.
 

StarryNightshade

Spiritually confused Jew
Premium Member
1. Early childhood experiences and parental values growing up in the Hindu religion.

I wasn't raised as a Hindu. In fact, until middle school, I had no idea "Hinduism" even existed. In general, though, I was raised to be a religious and political conservative by my parents.

2. Earliest memories of recognizing being part of the Hindu religion

Well, I've only been practicing for about a year and a half (not including a few months of doubt and questioning), but I remember having an immediate attraction to the Devas once I learned of their existence way back in my 7th grade history class.

3. The role of religion/spirituality in your daily life

Honestly, it just kind of comes naturally to me. I contemplate on the essence of the divine, try to cultivate compassion for others, and realize that what works for me may not work for others. To use Hindu terms, my practice is generous mix of Karma and Bhakti Marga.

5. Similarities/differences interactions in American culture compared to Hindu culture

Nothing major. Given that I am American, no one knows I'm Hindu unless I tell them. In general, however, I've found myself becoming less materialistic as time goes on.

6. School experiences as a member of the Hindu Religion

Again, notihng major. As previously said, no one knows I'm Hindu unless I tell them. Overall, it's been fairly positive.

7. Experiences with subtle racism or discrimination

Perhaps other white people telling me that I can't be Hindu because I'm white. :rolleyes:

8. Experiences with overt racism or discrimination

None that I can think of.

9. The experience of being culturally different (any examples would be great)

I'm still very much culturally western (minus the disappearing materialism).

10. Attitudes about the “majority” culture

It becomes annoying when non-theists tell me I'm stupid or superstitious, or when other theists of certain faiths tell me I'm wrong; but, otherwise, nothing major.

11. Any feelings of oppression from other cultures

Aside from the subtle racism of other white westerners telling me I can't be Hindu, there has been no "oppression" that I can think of.

12. Any strengths that help you cope and practice the Hindu religion in the US

Not caring what any antagonists (be they atheists or other theists) think about my religion and just keep practicing.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
1. Early childhood experiences and parental values growing up in the Hindu religion.

I was raised Roman Catholic, Italian-American. I fully adopted Hinduism as an adult, but I had leanings towards it as far back as my teens (I'm 57).

2. Earliest memories of recognizing being part of the Hindu religion

No, because it was a gradual fade-in.

3. The role of religion/spirituality in your daily life

Prominent. Something called antharyagam puja - internal worship, always thinking of God - and the belief that nara seva narayana seva, "service to man is service to God".

5. Similarities/differences interactions in American culture compared to Hindu culture

Being born and raised in the US as an Italian-American, I've had little exposure to Hindu/Indian culture until recently. My Hinduism was always private and solitary.

6. School experiences as a member of the Hindu Religion

None to speak of. Some school friends were interested in eastern philosophies and religions.

7. Experiences with subtle racism or discrimination
8. Experiences with overt racism or discrimination

Neither of those. Except ironically on the internet from some people who believe that a western white person cannot and should not be Hindu.

9. The experience of being culturally different (any examples would be great)

Yes, the opposite of what you're probably asking. In the Indian/Hindu community I am the one who stands out. I have never been made to feel unwelcome, rather, the opposite. People, including the temple priests have gone out of their way to make me feel welcome. The feeling of being different is mine alone.

10. Attitudes about the “majority” culture

"It is difficult to answer when one does not understand the question" - Ambassador Sarek of Vulcan.

11. Any feelings of oppression from other cultures

Yes, from Italian-Americans... my family!

12. Any strengths that help you cope and practice the Hindu religion in the US

My internal strengths, which come from God and the deities.
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
Started to answer, but your questions are for Hindus in America, and we have many people to answer them. Though I am quite a rare breed, an atheist Hindu.
 
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Andal

resident hypnotist
Would anyone be willing to answer any or all of the following questions about their experiences being a member of the Hindu religion. Feel free to add anything that you feel is important to know that has helped you practice your religion living in the US.

1. Early childhood experiences and parental values growing up in the Hindu religion.

I did not grow up in a Hindu family although I did grow up Buddhist and there are many crossovers. The biggest values are compassion and giving.

2. Earliest memories of recognizing being part of the Hindu religion

I recognized I was Hindu the moment I met Lord Vishnu in my early 20s. I realized that I am a part of the community- really recognized it- my first Janmashtami fast.

3. The role of religion/spirituality in your daily life

It is very important. Not a day goes by that I do not think of the Lord in one way or another. I practice regular pujas, mantras, and kirtan and go to the temple when possible.

5. Similarities/differences interactions in American culture compared to Hindu culture

The biggest difference for me is the overwhelming focus on Abrahamic religions as if they were the only ones that mattered. Of course there are differences in life styles as well but I don't really focus on either.

6. School experiences as a member of the Hindu Religion

I was in university so it was naturally supportive.

7. Experiences with subtle racism or discrimination

This is an important thing to note, Hinduism is NOT a race. People can be Hindu and be Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani, American, Canadian, Cambodian, Indonesian, Vietnamese, British, and anything else. Likewise not all Indians are Hindu.

8. Experiences with overt racism or discrimination

See above. If someone is experiencing racism it is because of their ethnicity not their faith. With that said people can experience hate because of their religion. For many American Hindus they experience it from their closest friends and family because it is a big change in world view. We also experience it from other Americans who say things like "But you're (insert skin color) you can't be Hindu"

My friends joke that I'm a cow worshiper or it's like Temple of Doom but they are mostly joking

I have also hear some rumors of being discriminated against because they aren't Indian Hindus, comments like" You can't be Hindu your not Indian." I've only experienced that once from a person who appeared to have a finite understanding of Sanatana Dharma.

9. The experience of being culturally different (any examples would be great)

It's sometimes tough in the temples because I do not have more than a survival grasp of Indian languages. This is the biggest stumbling block on my side. I have also experienced Indian temple goers frustration because we couldn't communicate with ease.

10. Attitudes about the “majority” culture

No opinion

11. Any feelings of oppression from other cultures

I live in one of the most culturally diverse cities in the world. no oppression.

12. Any strengths that help you cope and practice the Hindu religion in the US
Thanks!!
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Aum Hari Aum!
 
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