An interracial couple tried to get married in the state of North Carolina. They were refused not by one but by two Magistrates in their local courthouse. Both cited religious reasons for refusing to marry them.
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Should Government employees be allowed to refuse to marry couples if doing so goes against their sincerely held religious views?
As we live in a democracy -and even those religious people likely do not want a theocracy (many came to America seeking freedom of religion, but in reality it was freedom to not have someone else's religion forced upon them) -their religious beliefs might understandably cause them to seek other employment, but should not cause them to disrupt or interfere with what has been decided by the government or people.
If there is something in the laws of the land (such as when states can decide things for themselves regardless of what is decided by the federal government) that presently allows them to lawfully take such action, then that would need to be addressed at a state level.
If a state holds a vote and a majority is against gay marriage? Then what?
Some believe it is an inherent right for gays to marry -some do not believe that.
However, even God knew it was quite useless to force people to adhere to his laws.
People will choose their own paths.
If there is a lesson to be learned by doing so, they will learn it by experience and God will reason with them later.
This is not to say one should not state the case when they see that an issue will cause harm or is not the best option -or that people do not have the right to a say in matters that will in some way affect them and their families -but it is pointless to try to make others' decisions for them.
Some do not see any benefit to obeying God (though some understanding is necessary in applying the law where true intersexuality is concerned), and do not understand that God's help is something that will be sorely missed when dealing with worldly matters without him.
When Israel wanted a king like other nations -and rejected God's system of judges -God explained to them how it would be a bad idea, but still allowed it to happen.
7And the LORD said unto Samuel, Hearken unto the voice of the people in all that they say unto thee: for they have not rejected thee, but they have rejected me, that I should not reign over them. 8According to all the works which they have done since the day that I brought them up out of Egypt even unto this day, wherewith they have forsaken me, and served other gods, so do they also unto thee.
9Now therefore hearken unto their voice: howbeit yet protest solemnly unto them, and shew them the manner of the king that shall reign over them.
10And Samuel told all the words of the LORD unto the people that asked of him a king.
11And he said, This will be the manner of the king that shall reign over you: He will take your sons, and appoint
them for himself, for his chariots, and
to be his horsemen; and
some shall run before his chariot.....
18And ye shall cry out in that day because of your king which ye shall have chosen you; and the LORD will not hear you in that day.
Phillipians 2:12
Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out YOUR OWN salvation with fear and trembling.
(Emphasis mine)