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Not a sin anymore???

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
As a Gay Christian what do you say about Christian ministers marrying homosexuals or blessing the marriages of homosexuals?
To me the Bible does seem to be teaching that homosexual acts are not the will of God.
What would you say to someone like me who finds it hard to see that the Bible is not against homosexual acts but who wants to welcome gays into the Church anyway?
Well, I'm bisexual and also a trans man. So I deal with a double whammy right there. Christianity just doesn't know what to do with people like me. I'm Catholic and the Church does not approve of homosexuality or transgenderism. But what they say about it doesn't really reflect the reality of it, which is part of the reason why we tend to get offended when people who think it's sinful depict us as caricatures in how they discuss this issue. It's ignorance. Most of them don't know what they're talking about in the first place.

This fixation on gays is ridiculous, anyway, and the fixation is largely on male homosexuality, at that. There's so many more pressing issues for Christians to deal with, but we're worried about men being attracted to each other. In the grand scheme of things, who really cares? Even in the Bible, there's only 6 verses that seem to reference homosexuality at all and it's debatable exactly what they mean. There's thousands of other verses. The ban on homosexual sex was likely to reinforce sex roles, but we've largely abandoned those as a society and that's not even the reasoning given for modern arguments against homosexuality, which tend to center around how gross straight men people think man on man stuff is. This is not very convincing. Meanwhile, the straight people are killing kids (abortion), divorcing, creating an epidemic of broken homes, broken families and broken generations. People need to stop being hypocrites and clean up their own house first. People are people, and all should be welcomed and treated with dignity. Just get to know people and judge them by their character.

I think officiating a gay marriage or blessing a gay relationship is up to the church or pastor. Obviously the Catholic Church doesn't, but others do.
 

Brian2

Veteran Member
They are good in no way good. They are outright evil. Hinduism asks us to purge them completely - Lust, anger, pride and greed (Kama, Krodha, Mada, Lobha). This is where evil resides.

So you should be asking Hinduism why we have these things in us if Hindu God wants us to get rid of them. It is not a problem in Christianity.
If we did not have sexual attraction then we would not reproduce.
If we did not have anger then we would let any one do anything in society and get away with it.
If we did not have pride we would not wash our clothes and would not care about doing a good job etc.
If we did not have desire for things then we would all be living in the trees still.

It is not those things that are evil it is not being able to stop them from controlling us and so using them in the wrong way.
 

Brian2

Veteran Member
Well, I'm bisexual and also a trans man. So I deal with a double whammy right there. Christianity just doesn't know what to do with people like me. I'm Catholic and the Church does not approve of homosexuality or transgenderism. But what they say about it doesn't really reflect the reality of it, which is part of the reason why we tend to get offended when people who think it's sinful depict us as caricatures in how they discuss this issue. It's ignorance. Most of them don't know what they're talking about in the first place.

This fixation on gays is ridiculous, anyway, and the fixation is largely on male homosexuality, at that. There's so many more pressing issues for Christians to deal with, but we're worried about men being attracted to each other. In the grand scheme of things, who really cares? Even in the Bible, there's only 6 verses that seem to reference homosexuality at all and it's debatable exactly what they mean. There's thousands of other verses. The ban on homosexual sex was likely to reinforce sex roles, but we've largely abandoned those as a society and that's not even the reasoning given for modern arguments against homosexuality, which tend to center around how gross straight men people think man on man stuff is. This is not very convincing. Meanwhile, the straight people are killing kids (abortion), divorcing, creating an epidemic of broken homes, broken families and broken generations. People need to stop being hypocrites and clean up their own house first. People are people, and all should be welcomed and treated with dignity. Just get to know people and judge them by their character.

I think officiating a gay marriage or blessing a gay relationship is up to the church or pastor. Obviously the Catholic Church doesn't, but others do.

I've found that the reasons given for anti homosexuality views centers on what the Bible says and what the teaching has been over the years in the church. But true straight people should clean up their own **** first of course.
I find that even Christians who read the Bible as saying that God is against homosexual acts do want to welcome gays and treat them with dignity. But it seems to them that this part of the Bible should not be overlooked in the Church even if their own house is not 100% in order. But of course it may be that these places have been mistranslated or misinterpreted even if it does not look that way on the surface at least.
It certainly is a tough thing for many to handle and is causing problems in other denominations where splitting over such issues is probably more likely than in the Catholic Church.
It is becoming a battle according to many conservative Christians about the authority of the Bible, liberal versus conservative views about that.
Do you think that you would be able to remain a Christian (or even have become a Christian in the first place) if you thought you would be expected to avoid gay sex? Well I suppose in the Catholic Church that would be expected and it would end up being something between you and the Lord.
In that respect if you think that you are free in the Lord to be what you are and act how you do then in the Church it is probably something that you could not be too open about
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
So you should be asking Hinduism why we have these things in us if Hindu God wants us to get rid of them. It is not a problem in Christianity.

If we did not have sexual attraction then we would not reproduce.
If we did not have anger then we would let any one do anything in society and get away with it.
If we did not have pride we would not wash our clothes and would not care about doing a good job etc.
If we did not have desire for things then we would all be living in the trees still.
Lust and sex are different things. If some one goes against law, then the law will take care of it, what use is anger? Dressing well is not pride, it is like keeping one's things clean. The fourth thing is greed. As for earning and personal possessions, as long as they have come through lawful means, Hinduism has no problem with it. One needs to provide for the family.

"Dhanat dharmam, tatah sukham"* (With money one is able to fulfill his obligations towards the family or the society (charity), and with the fulfillment of 'dharma' (duties), comes happiness)

Basically, you need to understand Hinduism correctly. None or these are ordained by any God or any representative from them. These are social rules, made for the prosperity and peaceful conduct of the society. Even Gods have to follow them. That is the characterization of Lord Rama - 'Maryada Purushottam', one who never swayed from his obligations.

* The full verse is:
"Vidya dadati vinayam, vinayat yati patratam;
partratvat dhanam apnoti, dhanat dharmam, tatah sukham.
"
With education comes humbleness, with humbleness comes suitability,
with suitability we get money, and with money we can fulfill our dharma, that brings us happiness.
 
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Brian2

Veteran Member
Lust and sex are different things. If some one goes against law, then the law will take care of it, what use is anger? Dressing well is not pride, it is like keeping one's things clean. The fourth thing is greed. As for earning and personal possessions, as long as they have come through rightful means, Hinduism has no problem with it. One needs to provide for the family.

Basically, you need to understand Hinduism correctly. None or these are ordained by any God or any representative from them. These are social rules, made for the prosperity and peaceful conduct of the society.

You are right of course but on a deeper level sexual attraction to your wife is similar to lust for everyone you see. It is all part of the one spectrum. The evil side comes when the good part of sexual attraction is misused and gets out of hand and we cannot control it for what God wants it used for.
It is the same with anger, which is in the same spectrum as murder.
Greed is in the same spectrum as stealing and idolatry (putting the created things before the creator in our lives)
Self esteem and pride are probably on the same spectrum.
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
Yeah, between me and my wife, sex was fun as well as a part of life, duty (procreation, now at our age after 55 years of marriage, we are out of it). We controlled it quite well. I never had much greed or pride. I came to control anger when my job at an information desk required me to interact with hundreds of students every day desiring to go to US for higher studies for some 15 years (Fulbright Foundation, New Delhi). They would ask the same questions again and again. I came to realize that they are no different from my own children who would put questions to me. I began to enjoy their questions and never felt angry after that.
 

leroy

Well-Known Member
You are expected to provide evidence of a thing/realm/whatever you claim the existence of. Yes. Why wouldn't you be? Perhaps you could explain what you think is wrong with the reasoning that if you want to claim something exists, you need to provide evidence for that thing. If we didn't reason this way, we'd have to accept every claim anybody ever made. Bigfoot? Must be real because somebody claimed it. Chupacabra? Must be real because somebody claimed it. Magical pixies that control our minds? Must be real because somebody claimed it.

Do you not see the problem here?
Do you not see the problem here?
Ofcourse i see a problem, you made a dishonest strawman.

Again , I was told to support 4 alleged historical facts

And I support them on the bases of having multiple independent documents corroborating those facts

This is standard methodology that historians use to stablish facts from Ancient history. And you do accept all historical facts that have this level of support, you are just making an arbitrary exception with things that contradict your own personal philosophical assumptions.




Those books were carefully selected (while others were excluded) by a group of men with an agenda.
That is "flatt earth logic" that sounds like "NASA has an agenda wich is why they are lying about the shape of the earth"

Your comment is not even relevant, the fact is that we have these independent documents (Paul and the Gospels)...... weather if they made it to the cannon or not is irrelevant


And yet neither demonstrate the existence of the supernatural. They just claim it. You must understand the difference between claiming a thing and demonstrating that it's true, right?
And the evidence that I propose is the fact that we have multiple independent historical documents reporting these 4 events

I mean, you don't seriously believe that if two different people claim they saw a ghost then that demonstrates the existence of ghosts, right?

Yes Ofcourse, if multiple people report indendently having seen the same goht in the same place and the descriptions match, I would considered strong evidence.

You keep ignoring my argument, my argument is not that my 4 alleged facts are true because somebody claimed..... my argument is that multiple independent sources report the same events

Lets say that
1 I report a ghost that appeared in my room , it is the "spirit" of a white fat man with a brown beard who claimed to have died in 1912.

2 the pizza delivery guy, who was delivering a pizza to my neighbor also saw the ghost, and also described the gohst accurately. Including the 1912 date.

3 my neighbor also saw the gohst through his window , and also made an accurate description
.....
Obviously something like this would count as strong evidence for the existence of that particular gohst.

Obviously a single testimony is just a claim (could be true, could be a lie, could be a hallucination)

But multiple independent testimonials corroborate an event because it would have been unlikely for different people to have had invented the same lie or to have had hallucinated the same thing.


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SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
I've read plenty of literature.
On this subject? Doesn't seem like it to me.

And just because a college teaches something doesn't make it so.
University, actually.

And yes, it does "make it so" that people have been discussing and studying gender for a long time now. Whether or not you're aware of it.

Public Colleges have a liberal bias in almost every case.
University. Judging from your silly comment here I'm guessing you haven't ever attended one.
Your comment is irrelevant and dismissive. People have been studying gender for a long time now. It doesn't matter whether you recognize it or not.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
Well then why don’t you quote a specific point?

That is a very lazy critique, I can also reject any claim by simply saying “ohhh i´ts an assumption with no evidnece”

Are you okay?

My comment literally started with the words "His points were that you are making a ton of assumptions that are not in evidence. You've got assumption, stacked upon assumption stacked upon assumption. And so your conclusions about Jesus and the Bible were not arrived at by a careful and rational consideration of the evidence, but rather, by stacking up these assumptions that are not in evidence. That's not rational thinking."

 

Wildswanderer

Veteran Member
On this subject? Doesn't seem like it to me.


University, actually.

And yes, it does "make it so" that people have been discussing and studying gender for a long time now. Whether or not you're aware of it.


University. Judging from your silly comment here I'm guessing you haven't ever attended one.
Your comment is irrelevant and dismissive. People have been studying gender for a long time now. It doesn't matter whether you recognize it or not.
Studying something doesn't make the studies relevant to reality.
 

leroy

Well-Known Member
Are you okay?

My comment literally started with the words "His points were that you are making a ton of assumptions that are not in evidence. You've got assumption, stacked upon assumption stacked upon assumption. And so your conclusions about Jesus and the Bible were not arrived at by a careful and rational consideration of the evidence, but rather, by stacking up these assumptions that are not in evidence. That's not rational thinking."
And my request was

1 pick a single specific point

2 quote his actual words

3 explain why is that a valid point


Sure you could argue that you don’t have time or interesting meeting my request, but don’t pretend that you answered to my demands if you didn’t.
 

F1fan

Veteran Member
Ofcourse i see a problem, you made a dishonest strawman.

Again , I was told to support 4 alleged historical facts

And I support them on the bases of having multiple independent documents corroborating those facts
You keep saying they are independent when it is all the same book.

And scholars agreed that the 4 gospels are not independent testimonies, rather 4 versions of a single narrative. These gospels aren’t even consistent it their details. This indicates that the writers at the time were not concerned about consistency or facts.

If you had independent sources that would mean they are from other writers, and who are objective and credible. You cite Paul as a source but he was trying to sell a new religion so not objective nor credible.

This is standard methodology that historians use to stablish facts from Ancient history. And you do accept all historical facts that have this level of support, you are just making an arbitrary exception with things that contradict your own personal philosophical assumptions.
Irony. Historians look for facts from a variety of sources. Moses is now considered to be a fictional character. The exodus from Egypt is not accurate as described in the Bible. Historians rely on archaeology to reveal facts about the past and the facts are not supporting traditional beliefs.







And the evidence that I propose is the fact that we have multiple independent historical documents reporting these 4 events
This isn’t true.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
Ofcourse i see a problem, you made a dishonest strawman.

Again , I was told to support 4 alleged historical facts

And I support them on the bases of having multiple independent documents corroborating those facts

This is standard methodology that historians use to stablish facts from Ancient history. And you do accept all historical facts that have this level of support, you are just making an arbitrary exception with things that contradict your own personal philosophical assumptions.
You don't have multiple independent sources. You have several Biblical sources. That's it. Your facts are not "supported" just because of some claims in an old book. Are you seriously suggesting that the supernatural aspects of Bible stories are confirmed because it says so more than once in the Bible? Please tell me you're not. There are no contemporary reports that corroborate any of the fantastical aspects of any Biblical story.

This speaks to my point that you refuse to address and try to label as a "straw man." That if we use your methodology and logic here, then we basically have to accept every supernatural claim everybody has ever made, so long as at least a couple of different people are claiming it. This is not how historians operate. Or logic. I mean seriously, do you think when they found the city of Troy that meant that all of the supernatural claims about what occurred there in ancient times were also confirmed? Probably not, right? Or if two different people tell a story about being abducted by aliens that we now have to believe that aliens exist and spend their time abducting humans?

That is "flatt earth logic" that sounds like "NASA has an agenda wich is why they are lying about the shape of the earth"
It's actually just a fact of reality. Are you not aware of the Council of Nicea? You really, seriously think that the people who decided what stories would be included or excluded in the Bible didn't have an agenda?

Your comment is not even relevant, the fact is that we have these independent documents (Paul and the Gospels)...... weather if they made it to the cannon or not is irrelevant
Tell me, when did Paul meet Jesus, again? You didn't answer me the last time.

You don't seem to realize that the very reason you have these "independent documents" is because they made it in to the cannon in the first place, while others were rejected. If they hadn't, you wouldn't even know about them and they would have disappeared into the dustbin of history with the rest of the rejects.

And the evidence that I propose is the fact that we have multiple independent historical documents reporting these 4 events
So, to be clear here, your evidence for the supernatural are claims and stories in an old book that can never be verified by the modern reader? Wow, that's some powerful stuff.

Okay. I assert that Apollo is real and flies the sun across the sky every day in his chariot. Why do I believe this? Well, it's verified by two independent sources - Homer and Hesiod. That's my evidence for the supernatural. You believe in Apollo now, right? Or do you see the problem now?|

Yes Ofcourse, if multiple people report indendently having seen the same goht in the same place and the descriptions match, I would considered strong evidence.
Wow. Well that just speaks for itself, doesn't it. Your standard of evidence is incredibly poor, I'm sorry to say.

I care about believing in as many true things as possible, and not believing in as many false things as possible. It doesn't appear that you do, and instead will believe most any claim, as long as more than one person makes it? That's not a pathway to believing true things.

You keep ignoring my argument, my argument is not that my 4 alleged facts are true because somebody claimed..... my argument is that multiple independent sources report the same events
Dude, those are the same thing. The stories in the Bible are claims, not evidence.

Lets say that
1 I report a ghost that appeared in my room , it is the "spirit" of a white fat man with a brown beard who claimed to have died in 1912.

2 the pizza delivery guy, who was delivering a pizza to my neighbor also saw the ghost, and also described the gohst accurately. Including the 1912 date.

3 my neighbor also saw the gohst through his window , and also made an accurate description
.....
Obviously something like this would count as strong evidence for the existence of that particular gohst.
It provides no evidence for the existence of ghosts. It provides no explanatory power, it provides nothing in the way of measurable, repeatable, testable anything. It's just 3 untestable claims.
And it assumes that ghosts exist in the first place. What is a ghost, exactly anyway? To me, it's just a thing people use to describe experiences they don't have explanations for.

Obviously a single testimony is just a claim (could be true, could be a lie, could be a hallucination)

But multiple independent testimonials corroborate an event because it would have been unlikely for different people to have had invented the same lie or to have had hallucinated the same thing.

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Honestly, at this point, it appears to me that you don't understand the nature of evidence versus claims.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
And my request was

1 pick a single specific point

2 quote his actual words

3 explain why is that a valid point


Sure you could argue that you don’t have time or interesting meeting my request, but don’t pretend that you answered to my demands if you didn’t.


His points were that
-you are making a ton of assumptions that are not in evidence. You've got assumption, stacked upon assumption stacked upon assumption.
-your conclusions about Jesus and the Bible were not arrived at by a careful and rational consideration of the evidence, but rather, by stacking up these assumptions that are not in evidence. That's not rational thinking.


Why you want me to quote his posts is beyond me. Quote them yourself, then you could actually address his point(s). Or you could just address the points here. Or continue to obfuscate, I guess.
 

leroy

Well-Known Member
But it’s not remotely likely true. The supernatural elements of the stories are not consistent with what we know of reality. That’s an extraordinary claim. That means you need extraordinary evidence. And let’s note that your claim comes from the Bible. Your sources can’t be the Bible itself. The Bible is not independent if you are making the claim from the Bible.
Ok So lets simply change the words

1 I am claiming that my 4 alleged facts are true because Paul say so

My evidence

2 Other independent Documents (gospels for example) also report the same events , corroborating Pauls Claima




It doesn’t matter if the Bible is one book or a collection of stories. Your claim that the gospels are true comes from the Bible itself.


Ok Smart guy:

Question 1

How do we know about what happened in ancient past? (how do historians know all the suff that you learned in school)+


Answer 1

Among other things, we learn about ancient history based on what people wrote in ancient documents

Question 2

How do we know if a document is reliable


Answer 2

There are many different criteria, one of them is multiple attestation, if 2 independent sources report the same event, then it´s likely that the event is historical

Question 3
are my 4 points supported by ancient documents, and fulfill the criteria of multiple attestation

Answer 3

Yes, we know that those 4 alleged facts mention in Paul are likely historical facts because other sources (the gospels) also report the same facts, therefore we have multiple attestation

So be specific, of my 3 answers would you say it´s wrong and why? @SkepticThinker please answer to this question too
 
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leroy

Well-Known Member
Why you want me to quote his posts is beyond me. Quote them yourself, then you could actually address his point(s). Or you could just address the points here. Or continue to obfuscate, I guess.
Because I argue that his points are dumb and not worthy of consideration, and you seem to disagree.

So my suggestion is

1 quote the best point that you think he made _(his actual words)

2 and explain why is the point valid and worthy of consideration
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
Because I argue that his points are dumb and not worthy of consideration, and you seem to disagree.

So my suggestion is

1 quote the best point that you think he made _(his actual words)

2 and explain why is the point valid and worthy of consideration
You think it's irrelevant and "dumb" to point out that you're making assumption on top of assumption in order to draw your conclusions? Of course you do, because it demonstrates the weakness in your arguments/claims.
1. No. You quote his points that you think are irrelevant. I've provided the points for you. The poster you want me to quote has liked my posts where I point out his points, so I'm going to take that as confirmation that I'm on the right track with them. This is just obfuscation, on your part.
2. I did that. Are you having trouble reading my post that literally says "the points are ... " ?
 
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