This was written to me regarding my preparations for Janmashtami last month. As usual I am confused, though I abided by the advice, and took my chances that what I offered was not nasty tasting:
"I hope you do intend to offer these dishes to Krishna first? In which case you cannot taste them. He gets to taste and smell it first. We offer naivedya, then eat prasad of what He leaves for us."
What I made was a very sweet coconut rice pudding, a very sweet cream of wheat, sweet yogurt, fruits. Naturally, none of what I made or offered had any eggs or other animal products other than dairy.
My confusion is in that, when preparing proper foods for the Lord and you cannot taste it as you are preparing it, how do you know if it comes out "crappy" and is not fit to offer?
When cooking for our families we don't just throw ingredients into a pot and hope for the best. We taste, season, and adjust. When it's right, to the best of our determination, we serve it. Shouldn't it be all the more important to make sure that what we offer to Krishna is perfect?
At least what I've learned in traditional Gaudiya Vaishnavism, there is the external rule that when one is preparing some foodstuff for Sri Guru, Mahaprabhu and Krishna, we should not taste it prior to offering. This is underlying the concept that food before it is offered is bhoga ('enjoyment'), and by not tasting it, we are not making this preparation for our own enjoyment, but for the Lord's enjoyment, and for those of His devotees.
It takes alot of practice to learn how to cook without tasting it. When I make a formal offering, sometimes I will just offer it, and then after offering I will add more salt depending on its taste. Sometimes in the very kitchen, I will take a spoonful, mutter the Mahamantra under my breath, and then taste it, and then make the formal offering.
The importance does not lie in the rule and regulation, but the consciousness behind it. It teaches restraint from tasting or doing anything for our own personal satisfaction, and to remind us that everything should be done for the Lord.
In Srila Narayana Maharaja's Gita, he translates:
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Spiritual persons partaking of vegetarian remnants offered in sacrifice unto the Supreme Lord get relief from all varieties of sins; but those who prepare food for their own consumption, those sinners eat only sin."
-- Bhagavad Gita 3.13
Even under a traditional exigesis, since even plants also are the embodiments of jivatma, spiritual souls who have reincarnated into plant form, killing them is a form of murder. So by offering them to the Lord, the sinful reactions from that 'murder' is taken away.
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O Arjuna, whatever actions you do, whatever you eat, whatever you offer in sacrifice, whatever you give in charity, whatever austerities you perform, all that you do; make as an offering unto Me."
-- Bhagavad Gita 9.27
The most important is your consciousness while you are cooking. When I cook for the Lord, I also like to play nice spiritual music, such as Krishna-kirtana. But I also think of Vidura's wife. Generally, all food is offered to the Lord; when Vidura's wife saw Lord Krishna, she was in complete ecstasy and love, that as she was offering Krishna bananas, she ate the bananas and gave Him the banana peels. Vidura was mad when he came home and heard this, and Krishna gently reminded him that out of the love that was made manifest from His devotee, He was so charmed by her devotion that He Himself ate the banana peels.
Then there is the pastime of Lord Ramachandra (I'm not sure, someone correct me if I misinform), where a woman, out of desire to feed Lord Rama the best, first ate the food by nibbling it to see if it tasted good, and then personally feeding the rest of it to the Lord. Lakshmana, His brother, was astonished by this. But the meaning was that although there is formality, despite such formalities the Lord may go beyond that in order for His devotee to be pleased.
So don't become a fanatic, but the rules and regulations also have a hidden meaning behind them all. As a traditional 'orthodox' Hindu, I try not to be a fanatic. Orthodoxy does not have to be burdening, lol. For example, even if you can not make a formal offering on the altar, still offer your vegetarian foodstuffs by using your consciousness in manasa-puja (offer from the mind), chanting over it the Mahamantra, or "Sri Vishnu, Sri Vishnu, Sri Vishnu," or "Sri Krishna, Sri Krishna, Sri Krishna", or even "Lord Krishna, please accept these french fries." Prasadam and eating prasadam is also participating in a yagna (sacrifice), and Lord Vishnu is the Lord of all sacrifices, Adi-yagna.
We teach the children to chant the Mahamantra thrice, and then say "Lord Krishna, please accept this ___" before eating.
Formalities aside, as long as you offer in love and devotion, the Lord will accept it, even if your cooking is crappy, lol.
Hare Krishna!