Gentoo
The Feisty Penguin
I've known a few as well and to some extent I understand their point of view. For an ethnic Hellene who is making a sincere attempt to adopt/adapt the ways of their own ancestors, it must be irksome to see some, say, Irish girl claiming to worship the gods of ancient Greece while lacking more than the most cursory knowledge of the associated myths and practices. Especially if she is doing so while demonstrating no meaningful desire to really try to understand any of it in context.
Fluffbunnies DO exist and some frustration with them is justified.
On the other hand, I'm not personally of the opinion that "proper" recons should be taking it upon the themselves to be the Pagan Police, admonishing everyone that isn't "doing it right". To me, that smacks a bit too much of certain schools of certain monotheist religions that shall go unnamed.
But now I'm going off-topic in my own thread.
I've had "Cultural Rape" called on me, and I agree with what you say in this post.