and yet you continue to use the goods and services provided by not only government, but a society enabled by the presence and action of government...What I am saying is that I don't consent.
Look, I took the same position when I was young.
Then as I grew and learned more about people and society works, it is inevitable that a minority of the population, motivated by a desire for wealth and power, will rapidly come to dominate society, both government and economy. Everyone else becomes serfs.
The only possibility to prevent or delay that is to have a government system that is organized to protect the citizens, to allow them to have some access to wealth and power, and above all, opportunity. Such a system requires the participants to put out the effort to maintain the system. It may or may not work well.
Basically:
1) No government = oligarchy dominated by a small group that owns everything and makes all decisions for their own benefit.
2) Government = oligarchy dominated by a small group who hold top positions of power in the structure of government...but who either must themselves own all the wealth, or are sock puppets for the oligarchs who do own everything.