We are told sometimes, that people who refused to accept Jesus, will somehow get a "second chance"at judgement. This seems highly unlikely, because of course that will "make"people "convert". It is a silly concept, aside from those who literally never got the oppurtunity. Scripture seems to back this, as well.
This isnt to say there cant be a second chance, but that is contextual
I don't think Jesus taught there was a second chance. It's logical, though. If I don't accept an unopened gift from my parent, then even though I don't know what's in the box so I can't benefit nor not benefit from what's in it, I still "lose out" on having it in the first place.
Some people say those who have the opportunity to reject. If my parent gave me a box and I do not know what is in it, and they gave me the
choice to say no, and I do say no, that's not reject but taking the option to not take the box. As a result, if there was something that I could benefit from that box, I would not know. A lot of believers blame non-believers for what they do not know thinking that they opened the box, found gold, and threw it away.
Even if that were true, why would non-believers want gold if some of us say it is not beneficial to us as it as it is to others? If we are given the choice, even though by default we would not benefit, that guilt of not being saved was
technically on us because of our choice.
Some of us really don't care about the consequence of not taking the gift because we do not find it detrimental to our physical, mental, and spiritual health. So, if believers and books say that a non-believer is not saved (and by default, they are not), it does not matter. They don't care.
It has to matter to them in some way or somehow for them to feel the consequence of so-called rejection of a gift they never opened.
If they opened it, it has to benefit them in someway for them to feel the consequence of saying no (which they are given the choice to say)
In christianity, the parent says "if you do not obey god as my son says he (representing god) will say 'I never known you'" hence, that child would not be saved.
Yes, it's horrible for christians to hear and yes, I believe only jesus adherents would be saved, but why should it bother christians about those who do not care what's in the box and/or those who opened it and did not find it beneficial to their mental, physical, and spiritual health?