Hi,
@Carlita. I'd like to throw an idea out there for you (or anybody else) to consider. I'm especially interested in hearing your thoughts, though, since I more or less understand your background and way of looking at topics like this one. Let's say a person were exposed to the teachings of Jesus Christ at the age of 13, but simply wasn't interested. Now, fast forward ten years, and he is again presented with the idea that Jesus Christ is his Savior. This time, he explores Christianity in greater depth, but still just can't bring himself to buy into it. He's a good person and lives a reasonably good life. At the age of, say, 48, he once again starts to look into Christianity. This time, because many years have gone by and he's had a bunch of experiences that have made him look at things differently than he once did, he finds that he is really ready to become a Christian. He embraces the teachings of Jesus Christ and openly acknowledges that he'd been wrong in the past and wants to move forward in his newfound faith.
So... is he out of luck because, he passed up his "first chance" to accept Jesus Christ at age 13? He even passed up his second chance ten years later? Or maybe he shouldn't have even gotten a second chance. I can't imagine a single human being that I know who would say that we only get one chance to accept Jesus Christ, and that if we don't act on that one opportunity, it's lost forever. We're willing to give people multiple opportunities because we recognize that perspectives change over time. Maybe we, as humans, draw this arbitrary line that well call "death" and claim that that's when the final curtain falls on the opportunities God gives us to accept His Son. But to God, the continuum of our existence is entirely different. We're the same in His eyes before and after death. Why wouldn't He allow someone another chance after death, if He'd willingly allowed that person multiple chances during his life?
We're told to forgive 70 x 7 times. I don't think that means we're supposed to just forgive 490 times. I don't even think it means we're supposed to forgive "a whole lot of times." I think it means that we're not supposed to even keep track of how many times we've forgiven someone. I think that, to God, what matters is what happens in the end. And the end is NOT death.
Here's the thing.
If god gave the child the box at 13 and he didn't open it, he, by default, lost the benefit that's in the box. If there is a million dollars in the box and he doesn't open it, he lost out. Therefore, he lost his salvation to clear his debt. If he died that same night, he wouldn't just get the million dollars. He had his chance and didn't open the box.
Likewise, ten years later, he is presented with the same box. He looks at it, shakes it, reads about it, but doesn't open it. Since he doesn't open it even though he has the temptation to because of a gut feeling, he still loses out. It's the laws of logic. If you don't open the box, you won't know what's inside. If the million dollars would clear his debt, he wouldn't get it without opening the box. That was his second change
to open the box but unless he opens it, he only has one chance to clear his debt.
At age 48 he finally says, okay. Let me open it. He opens it and finds the million in there. His life is no longer in debt. He cleared it with the help of the one who gave the gift, and now is free as long as he doesn't build up more debt. But even if he did, he knows once he forgives, he can just open the box and everything is forgiven for him.
But if he never opened the box regardless how many times it was given to him, he can't clear his debt. If he died before opening the box, he would have no more chances because he would not be alive to even have debt in the first place.
I know many people say death is not the end. It really is, though. We
believe it is not. We
hope it is not. We have
faith it is not. We
assume it is not. From what we know of life and death, our bodies do decay and our spirits/the energy that keeps us alive doesn't disappear but connects with the rest of the energy say of plants, ground, etc and keep things alive. We aren't special in those regards.
Everything we experience and the interpretation of those experiences-god ones included-are from our minds. If our minds aren't healthy, god doesn't just say "hey, I'm still here." If someone cannot function in thought the word god has no concept or meaning. If god is external, that would not matter. Since he is internal and mental (lack of better words), he exists if one knows themselves better.
But some people are given the box and they don't know how to open it. Others have no interest in opening it. While others shake it but their minds don't click that they can open the box instead.
Even some people like myself don't even see the box everyone else says they have. Then on top of that, you guys say you have a gift and someone gave it you you and you go on to explain how. If god is external, the gift would be for everyone and it would be inherit in life. It is not.
It's a personal experience. If one doesn't take that first chance and dies, they have no second chance. We like to think there is but to be awake is to understand we do not.
Our bodies, spirits, and mind isn't meant to function like this forever. Once we know this, we become wiser. When we yearn to live forever, we haven't got there yet. It doesn't matter, though. If you feel you got your million dollars and people can still get it without opening the box before death, so be.
Just when I read scripture people only have one chance. If they don't accept the gift of salvation, how are they saved?
By default, how is that logical?