TagliatelliMonster
Veteran Member
Eyes clamped shut ...
Several people here that engage your OP have come to the same conclusion that you are confusing yourself.
Why assume it is us who have our "eyes clamped shut"?
Take my restaurant example... No pork chops on the menu.
Are pork chops an option for the customer? No, because they have no knowledge of it because the restaurant isn't communicating it.
The customer has no reason to think pork chops are an option.
The fact remains true that pork chops are a possibility. But not an option because it's not given as an option.
Someone who knows would have to tell the customers that pork chops are an option for it to be an option.
You can only choose between available options that you actually have knowledge of.
The lobster is a false option. The customer thinks he can choose it, but when he does, he'll be told "we're out of lobster".