Im very interested, please i would like to hear more!
k, well when it comes to the force I don't really adopt the light side dark side good evil dichotomy that the jedi have. Indeed I don't really believe in good and evil but prefer to focus on a helpful hurtful dichotomy. It forces me to way the possible consequences of my actions before commiting them as whether or not an action is good or bad will depend on the circumstances and outcome, on how many and how much it hurts vs. helps.
I see the overall cosmic force and the individual living forces that are aspects of it as all having their own "scale" as it were with light and dark at either end and all shades of gray inbetween. It is very rare for anyone to fall fully in either extreme which is good actually as I feel that extremes, light or dark, lead to destruction or stagnation and death depending on whether or not it falls to the dark side or light side respectively. So I feel extremes are best avoided and the best place is to be in the middle, to strike a balance between the two. That doesn't mean being exactly in the middle as that is another extreme, extreme neutrality.
I dont see light and dark as being divided along good and evil but rather passive and aggressive, defensive and offensive. Each one has their own time and place in which they work best and the worst damage is done when you use one at a time and place where the other should have been used or neither should have been used at all or a combination was necessary(which is most common).
Just like in a sword fight you have to balance between offense and defense. If you're only offensive then you leave yourself open, only defensive and you never take the chance to strike down your opponent. Likewise if you defend when you should attack and attack when you should defend you will also be defeated. In my current limited understanding of Taoism this is basically what it is, seeking a middle path between light and dark. But I'll have to do more research before I can officially consider myself "taoist".
Oh, and I'm also working on including Bushido in there as well
I hope that makes some modicum of sense
. If you have any questions I am happy to answer them.